O, The Oprah Magazine's life coach Martha Beck says that you can get what you want by writing a magic list, but you have to know how it works.

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They were mothers from opposite sides of the world awaiting the near impossible--organ transplants for their two critically ill baby boys. What unfolded was a story of life, death, friendship, and a desperate shortage that has many young lives hanging in

Psychotherapist Mark Epstein thought that fighting would ruin his marriage until he made a discovery about why it's important to argue. A real love story from O, The Oprah Magazine.

They came from wildly different backgrounds, and for 21 years, they've fought about politics, history, how to cook chicken...And yet, it works.