How to Deal with People Who Drive You Crazy

Rev. Ed Bacon, author of the new book 8 Habits of Love: Open Your Heart, Open Your Mind, offers tips to deal with your toughest relationships.

By the Rev. Ed Bacon
O, The Oprah Magazine | From the September 2012 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

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Let it Go

Holding a grudge won't make a person change her behavior—you don't have that much power over someone else. To move on, repeat this mantra: "Her actions take up too much real estate in my brain. If I move them out, I can live freely."

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