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8 Ways You're Unknowingly Sabotaging Your RelationshipThis might just save you thousands in couples therapy: Your partner is not always the problem. Sorry. You're welcome.
By Amy Shearn
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Mistake #3: Believing in the 15-Year ImmunityWe've all heard of the Seven-Year Itch, but equally treacherous is a belief in the 15-Year Immunity. Just because you've been together for a long time doesn't mean you're beyond trouble. Maybe things aren't going so well and you tell yourself it's just a rough patch—once this stress is past and that issue resolved, your relationship is destined to return to greener pastures. This rough patch isn't Real Life, is it? Long relationships aren't always pleasant, right? Besides, you've been together forever. But if you want to hit the 50-Year Jubilation, you've got to overcome your belief in the 15-Year Immunity and dive in and fix what's not working. Related ResourcesKeep Reading
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A Couples Therapist Screws UpShe made big plans; her boyfriend made excuses. She pushed; he pulled away. But when Darby Saxbe trained to become a couples therapist, she learned to put down her weapons, lean in, and collaborate on a winning cease-fire.
The One Thing You Need to Do to Save Your MarriageRelationships aren't easy, even for relationship experts. Here's a new technique from the co-founders of Imago Relationship Therapy that can work for any couple.
The Most Useful Communication Technique of All TimeDarby Saxbe uncovers the single most important thing couples can say to each other.
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