Be More Giving in Your Marriage—Without Feeling Like a Maid

Research shows people whose spouses did thoughtful things for them were the happiest with their relationships. Here are 11 ideas.

By Corrie Pikul

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Don't Pick Everything Up

Leave things you know he'll like—a witty cartoon (bonus if it references one of your inside jokes), an anticipated Netflix DVD, a bottle of wine you received as a gift—out in the open, where he'll feel he discovered them.

Published on January 24, 2012

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