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4 Ways to Get Through to Your Man

W. Bruce Cameron—author and famous traitor to his sex—lets you in on a few proven communication strategies. 
 
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"Wanna Dance?"

The best way to seduce a man the first time is to let him know you're interested—but not easy—with the word maybe. Maybe you should get together, maybe you'll have a drink with him, maybe you'd like to see his place. There's enough yes in maybe to keep a man from feeling rejected and enough no to keep him challenged. If it's a long-term relationship, the approach is different, but you'll do well if you still think of it as a dance. Get him to snuggle, kiss, and play but once you are there, let him take the lead. Whether it's a date or your 30th anniversary, a man likes to think it's his idea.

From the June 2005 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine
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