Dating Dos and Don'ts

Patti says there is something all single women can do to turn their love lives around. She says this assignment isn't for everyone—it's for the women who really want to find love. "Find your inner person," Patti says. "Meditate. Because I'll bet you if every one of you ladies in this room went to the most quiet place in your core, you'd know why you were single. I believe you all have your own answer. Find it.

"Take a new hobby up. Painting. Cooking. Dancing. Say, 'This is what I'm going to do this year.' Okay? But go to that place. Find that place in your last relationship—who ended it? What did you do? You can't fix them. You can only potentially fix you. So you have to work on you."

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