6 Cures For The Tongue-Tied

Cocktail parties invariably lead to awkward encounters with strangers, but you don't have to talk about the weather. Here's how to get almost anyone to open up.

By Amy Shearn

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Instant Yelp

Ask people what they love most about their neighborhood or town. Do they have a favorite restaurant—or thing to do? They're hemming or hawing? Make it easier and see if they know the best place to go apple-picking/fall-leaf-appreciating/holiday-light-viewing. As a bonus, you'll find yourself with a whole new list of fun things to try.

Published on December 05, 2012

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