"It takes two people to couple up and get married," says Harriet Lerner, PhD
, celebrated author of The Dance of Anger
, "but only one to make a relationship better." Waiting for your spouse to change first, she believes, is a recipe for unhappiness and divorce. Her new book, Marriage Rules
, lists 100 clear-cut, everyday ways to improve your marriage—starting with you and your own behavior. This week, we spoke with her and gleaned the ten most surprising:
Printed from Oprah.com on Thursday, December 12, 2013
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