Honestly. With all due respect, love, and admiration, sometimes we just don't get you. Would it kill you to tell us how you feel once in a while? How many times do we have to go, "Notice anything new?" before you realize we've done something interesting with our hair? Why do you take so many insane risks? And what's with the road rage? We asked a panel of smart, funny, surprisingly candid men to clear up these and a few dozen other unsolved mysteries.

• Why Don't You Notice My Hair? and Other FAQs by David Granger
  
• What Men Aren't Saying by Chris Abani
  
• The Stronger Sex by Edward Conlon
  
• Men and Women…How to Tell Them Apart by George Saunders
  
• Why Men Do Crazy Things by Jim Shepard
  
• The Other Man by Rodes Fishburne
  
• War Stories by Tobias Wolff
  
• Testosterone by Scott Spencer

From the July 2008 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

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