Nate Berkus believes your home should tell your story. Not who your decorator is. Not who your friends sometimes think you should be, not who your family occasionally wishes you would be, and not who any number of style magazines say you "must be. Today, get Nate's words of wisdom on creating the home of your dreams. Then, tune in Sunday as he opens up to Oprah about coming out, the cancellation of his talk show and more.

Nate's 4 rules for getting the home of your dreams >>