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How to Feel Grateful (Even When You Don't Want To)

Posted: Thu 01/24/2013 08:00 AM

Wondering why the next generation of spiritual teachers just seem so happy all the time? Here's one of their secrets: They're "on" gratitude. Watch as Gabrielle Bernstein, Mastin Kipp and Marie Forleo discuss how to stay grateful even when you're frustrated. Plus, find out why being grateful is good for your health and why you should start a gratitude journal today.

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Mastin Kipp: The Greatest Miracle of My Life

Posted: Thu 01/24/2013 08:00 AM
If you've ever hit a rough patch, read about TheDailyLove.com founder Mastin Kipp's experience, and find out why he says a low moment can set the stage for greater things. Then, tune in Sunday as Mastin joins two other voices from the next generation of spiritual thinkers.

By Mastin Kipp

There's nothing like hitting rock bottom with a great big BOOM!

That's exactly what happened to me a few years ago.I've always liked the sentiment of what J.K. Rowling said about rock bottom: "Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life." That's right, I've always liked the sentiment of this quote. But I can tell you that going through the actual experience ain't NO fun at all. It's a total bummer.

After a massive run as a young man in Hollywood, from being one of the youngest executives EVER at a major label, to working on the management team of a band that won GRAMMYs, to having all kinds of celebrities and top stores buy my clothing line, I had found myself at rock bottom. All the outward glory seemed to fade away like a distant memory, and I found myself face-to-face with all my dark thoughts that I had so masterfully suppressed for so long.

On top of that, when most people have a downturn, they move back in with their parents. Since my parents live in Kansas, that wasn't an option for someone who had fallen in love with Los Angeles. So I ended up moving in with my now-ex-girlfriend's parents—in the pool house. It was a great gift and gracious act from this family; the bonds of love tied us together, transcending any past transgressions.

The experience was one I'll never forget. Outside the pool house was lavish and beautiful abundance—a pool, a hot tub and a beautiful view. Inside the pool house was an 8-by-8-foot room with a small closet, shower and bathroom. Everything I needed. I felt like I was being shown something. What I felt was that the world was abundant (represented by my surroundings) but that I had not tapped into the power or possibility of how to create that in my life (represented by the supersmall room I was living in).

At first, I felt like this room was my prison. It wasn't until one day, about a month after living there, that I asked God, "Why did you put me in such a small room if so much abundance exists?" And the answer I got back was immediate: "Because this is the size of your faith."

Marie Forleo: The Secret to Finding Your Passion (Hint: Its Not What You Think)

Posted: Wed 01/23/2013 08:00 AM
Today, hear from blogger Marie Forleo! Why she says you should stop thinking and start doing. Read on! Then, tune in Sunday as Marie joins two other voices from the next generation of spiritual thinkers.

By Marie Forleo

Ever say to yourself, “If I could just figure out what I’m really passionate about, everything else will take off...”


If so, you’re not alone.

One of the most common stumbling blocks to launching a passion-based life is figuring out what you’re passionate about in the first place.

Sadly, many of us go about finding our passion in the wrong way.

How? By thinking about it.

We’re habituated to use our minds to analyze, rationalize, and figure things out. It’s natural but yet, oooooh-so-torturesome.

Common techniques to find passion include:

  • Taking expensive psychological tests
  • Recalling childhood interests
  • Or sitting at Starbucks watching your friend’s eyes glaze over after asking questions like “I don’t know...What do you think I should do?”

    Here’s the problem. Passion can’t be found in your head because it lives in your heart.

    And the flames of passion are fanned from engagement, not thought. Juicy, right?
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    Exclusive Webisode: Author Ayana Mathis on Why Readers Relate to Characters in Pain

    Posted: Tue 01/22/2013 12:01 PM

    In this exclusive online discussion, The Twelve Tribes of Hattie author Ayana Mathis and Oprah discuss whether readers prefer characters who are suffering or full of joy. Find out why Ayana believes readers can better relate to characters facing challenges.

    Learn how you can participate in Oprah's Book Club 2.0! Then, tune in Sunday, February 3, at 11 a.m. ET/PT for Oprah's television interview with Ayana Mathis on "Super Soul Sunday."

    Backstage with the Next Generation!

    Posted: Mon 01/21/2013 08:00 AM


    One of them was called a role model for a new generation by The New York Times. Another is the mind behind the fastest-growing inspirational site on the web. And the third built a multi-million dollar company that's building buzz around the world.

    Bloggers (and real-life friends) Gabrielle Bernstein, Mastin Kipp and Marie Forleo are also being called the next generation of spiritual voices. This Sunday, they're sitting down for an eye-opening panel discussion with Oprah.

    Before then, get to know Gabrielle, Mastin and Marie! Watch as they introduce themselves—and one another—backstage. (You'll never guess who never leaves home without a cooked chicken breast in his or her suitcase!)

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