Posted: Thu 09/27/2012 02:09 PM
In Martina's case, she met Gary while in foster care, a man who was supposed to act appropriately as her "uncle" and clearly did not. I know based on her personal story as a child, that she was not protected or taught unconditional regard for herself—which has followed her into her adult life, allowing unhealthy people to take advantage of her in many ways. We all need to come to a place where we understand the necessity of boundaries, of truth and of reality—and to be able to explore and process experiences from the past, away from shame, so that we can heal and go forward with a better understanding of who we are and what we need and deserve, for a love relationship to flourish. She's working on it, and I couldn't be more proud!
Posted: Thu 09/13/2012 05:00 PM
I hope that you have enjoyed these past few episodes and that you are continuing to learn, along with being entertained, while on your own journey to love!
Today, I want to talk about road blocks to love. Just this week in my firm, The Love Architects, an elite client of ours threw down some heavy ones—and my love architects and I are working hard to help her clear the path to love. In many cases, just as we're seeing with Charles, being strong, independent, educated, smart and in control serves people in their careers but not always in love. I have countless doctors, lawyers, executives and entrepreneurs who come to us seeking love. They may be charming, beautiful, wealthy and seem to have the world by the tail, but they’re still searching for meaningful, healthy relationships. What sometimes unfolds in the love process is that people can have deep, unhealed heart wounds from childhood and/or past relationships. This is the case with Martina—she’s blocking love without even being aware of it.
Posted: Mon 08/20/2012 05:05 PM
So how about that for a first episode! This was only the start of our 30-day experiment, and there’s clearly a long way to go! We are so excited that you are on this journey with us. It's mind boggling to know how this all began and to see where Lovetown is today. If you haven't already noticed from the first episode, there's so much more to love than meets the eye—we're talking “layers”!
Let’s start with the singles mixer.
Watch our six singles in action at the mixer!
You may have noticed during the mixer that I kept pretty quiet...I was busy studying. Love, as you know, is energy. I believe it’s our job as individuals to learn to read, trust and feel the energy that each person puts forth before knowing if he/she could be a potential partner.