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Iyanla's Advice for a Woman Who Attracts Emotionally Unavailable Men

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Jihan, 30, says she is attracted to—and attracts—emotionally unavailable men. She sits down with spiritual life coach Iyanla Vanzant to get to the root of her unhealthy relationship patterns.

"Well, it's not that you are attracted to them, because that makes it sound like something that you're consciously doing," Iyanla says. "It means that you have a memory and a pattern within you that hasn't been released or cleared."

Watch as Iyanla gives Jihan a prescription to help her heal her past wounds.

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