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Extraordinary Moms
Mayisha Akbar
![]() Mayisha was born Elaine Hook in Torrance, California on Oct 22, 1952, to the proud parents Louis C. Hook (Coweta, Oklahoma) and Anna Maude Harris (Rosedale, Louisiana). She was raised in the government housing projects in a partially rural area of Los Angeles called Harbor City. Animals were a passion as long as her mother can remember. "Each day, I would look out the window to see what animal she was bringing home today. Elaine wasn't afraid of animals. The sick were her favorite and would nurse them back to health." While exploring her community as a child, Elaine found she had a special relationship with horses. This love followed her into adulthood. Moving into the Richland Farms community was a whole new awakening for Mayisha and her family. As her children ventured out and made friends, they became pied pipers to the many "latch key" children encountered. Mayisha's interaction with those new friends generated an awareness that these kids were often in need of a place to go, food to eat, clothing to wear and family love. So on any given weekend, the Akbar home became a place for youth to meet, sleepover, and enjoy equestrian activities, among other fun events. It was amazing to Mayisha that night after night of sleepovers would go by and few of the parents of these new friends would ever show up. Instead of kicking the kids out, Akbar's kids told their friends that "there's lots of work around here and if you wanna stay and continue to ride you gotta help take care of the horses!" As the number of kids staying, working and riding grew, Mayisha found out that many of them weren't in school, and those who were in school were not doing well. So Mayisha told them "If you want to continue to ride you've got to be in school and getting good grades. If there's a problem we'll get you tutoring." As the number of the kids going to school grew, Mayisha realized there was a real need in the community for activities for kids, particularly boys, and that she could make a difference by giving them alternatives to the gang and drug lifestyle facing them daily in their community.
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