Writer, director and celebrity photographer Robert Trachtenberg recently asked 400 gay people: "When did you know you were gay?" He compiled their poignant and funny answers in the book When I Knew
. Check out a handful of the hilarious highlights
To share their own coming out stories, Carson Kressley of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy
and singer, writer and actor Billy Porter are here to talk about what it's like growing up with a big secret.