Oprah: One of the things you did so well—you blended your families and you included your ex as a part of the family because you knew you all had to get along.
Will: Absolutely. That's just what our life is, and, again, trying to fight it is the thing that is going to make it worse.
Oprah: So when you were going to have the baby, you sat down and said, "Now, what will our relationship be now that this baby is in the relationship?"
Will: Absolutely. And we sat down with Sharee—that's my ex; that's my baby's mama. And some really interesting things come out of there. You'd be surprised how much you don't understand what other people see your actions as; how other people view the things you say and the things that you do. And a lot of times just clarifying what your intentions are with people makes a huge difference.