Struggle On the Sidelines

Even though Sharon says she's doing a fine job raising and coaching Sarah, Dr. Smith asks her to think about how she could improve as a parent. "Well," Sharon answers, "I don't…I don't try and find the negatives."

Dr. Smith says that Sharon—and all parents—should try to figure out how to be better. Don't just focus on all you're doing right, Dr. Smith says, "We never learn that way."