"Is part of the reason the country is so undecided, ambiguous [about molestation] because everybody thinks it's just about the sex?" Oprah asks Dr. Ablow. "People think that, 'Oh, well, it was just about the sex.'"
"Correct," Dr. Ablow agrees. "If it was just the sex, it would be a different problem. The fact that someone says he loves you, who you desperately want to love you—he's your dad and this is your home and you want to be safe, so this is what you define as 'home,' right? That's the mind-bending part of it."