Richard Brassard and His Son, Cairo
One little boy who did not survive the tsunami was Cairo, who Nate Berkus met in Sri Lanka before the natural disaster occurred.
Richard Brassard was vacationing in Arugam Bay with his 7-year-old son, Cairo, and his girlfriend, Pong, when the tsunami hit. When the first wave came crashing in, Richard believed it was simply high tide. It wasn't until he was knocked down and covered with water that he knew something was wrong. As he grabbed a tree and saw the water quickly rising, he saw Cairo spin out in front of him. "I was going to dive in, and then he disappeared," Richard says. "I thought, 'He's so far ahead of me I'll never catch up to him.'
After a second set of waves receded, Richard and his friend Bandu searched for Cairo. Finally, Richard was told someone had seen Cairo's dead body at the end of the lagoon.
"I had this giant pain," Richard says. "It was like somebody punched me."
Bandu went to identify the body, and later Richard saw his son. "There were no cuts on him. He looked okay. And I talked to him a little bit. I cleaned his face. And I kissed him and told him I loved him. I wanted to spend more time with my son even though he was dead. I just wanted to look at him a little more. Touch him. But they wouldn't let me."
Richard says he doesn't know what he will do now. "My whole life was Cairo. That was my daily life. Everything I did was for Cairo. That was my future. He was not just my son. He was my best friend. My traveling companion. So I don't know yet. I just need to recover a little bit and then I'll think about what I'm going to do." Learn more about the tsunami disaster
from Nate Berkus and his fellow tsunami survivors.
Lisa Ling Travels to the Democratic Republic of the Congo
As she often does, journalist Lisa Ling risked her life to tell us a very important story. She recently travelled to the Democratic Republic of the Congo to uncover what's been happening to women in the middle of this war-torn country. The country's most recent conflict stems from a struggle for resources and power, both among domestic and foreign interests—four million people have already been massacred. Lisa spoke to brutalized women in the village of Bukavu who are speaking for the first time in hopes the world will hear their voices. Every single day in the Congo, rape is used as a vicious weapon against women in this war.
"More than any other place I've been, life in the Congo can really be like living hell," Lisa says. "If you're a woman, you're constantly in danger of rebels who are hiding in the forest coming and attacking your village and gang raping you, possibly in front of your children."
Lisa Ling and Oprah talk about helping the Congo
Lisa: Women in the Congo are considered "war booty," essentially. They are the ones who are suffering the most. The villages are attacked in the middle of the night by young soldiers. They violently rape the women. They've killed so many people already in six years. Four million people—and no one is paying attention. ... This is happening right now.
Oprah: It's happening right now. And I feel a responsibility that we have a voice to let people know what's going on, and to not to do that, I think, would be a crime.
Help women in the Democratic Republic of the Congo through the organization Women For Women International. Learn more by calling 202-737-7705 or visiting www.womenforwomen.org.
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