Debbie asks herself the question many mothers of grown children often struggle with, "Who am I now?"
"The role shifts," Oprah tells Debbie. "You no longer have the same role in your daughter's life at 27 as you did when she was 7, 12, 15, even 17. That role has changed. And you're still trying to hold onto that role. And to have to face the truth, the reality, of becoming real with yourself as to who am I now—that's a scary question for you."