After watching the DVD and seeing The Oprah Show about The Secret, Kim wrote to Oprah after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Three doctors told Kim she would have to have a partial radical mastectomy of the right breast and treatment. Kim writes that "after much thought, I have decided to heal myself." Her letter caught Oprah's attention, and she wanted to talk to Kim.
Oprah tells Kim she believes that The Secret is merely a tool; it's not treatment. "The medical community, as we know, have been able to perform what some people call miracles," Oprah says. "And while you're taking advantage of that, think as positively [as you can]. Think about attracting healing to yourself, think about the goodness that the healing will bring to yourself."
Kim says she did not want to make a decision out of fear, but she did take action. Although Kim decided not to have surgery, chemotherapy or radiation treatments, she is working with a doctor who specializes in breast cancer to improve her nutrition and outlook while documenting her health along the way. If it comes down to choosing between her breast or her life, Kim says she chooses her life. "But we do have choices, and I'm making a choice. And in six months' time, I am believing that the cancer will be gone—and if it is not, it has shrunk so much that I can have a lumpectomy not a partial radical mastectomy," Kim says. "It's about holding onto my right for choice."
"What I believe about the law of attraction, I want to clarify it," Oprah says. "I want to say it's a tool. It is not the answer to everything. It is not the answer to atrocities or every tragedy. It is just one law. Not the only law. And certainly, certainly, certainly not a get-rich-quick scheme. The law of attraction is a tool that can help you decide what you want your life to be, and then begin to help you focus on making the best choices through action to create that life."
A student from Texas took the time to e-mail Oprah about her honors world geography teacher, Mrs. Adeniyi, who has a dream that only Oprah can fulfill.
Mrs. Adeniyi has reserved an "Oprah-only chair" in her classroom for the last six years, hoping that Oprah would visit one day. "No person has ever sat in or even breathed on that chair and lived," ninth-grader Ashtian writes. "She is such a fun teacher with great ideas. I would love for you to meet her, even if it's for a single moment."
Oprah meets Mrs. Adeniyi and has a special surprise for her via satellite. The night before the show, Oprah had the principal pack and ship the "Oprah chair" to Chicago! "I was definitely upset that it was missing because no one has touched that chair," Mrs. Adeniyi says. "All these students know at the beginning of the year, I set the tone that the chair is not to be touched. And they all doubted me that you were ever going to sit in it. So this is unreal."
Oprah isn't the only one with a special seat. "Because you have reserved this chair for me all of these years, I am now going to reserve two seats for you," Oprah says. "So please tell us when you want to come to the Oprah Show, and I'll have a special seat reserved right here in the front just for you."
When Oprah and Gayle hit the road on their big adventure last summer, viewers' e-mails poured in. One secretary named Krista had a concern about the road trip's title. "Everyone who has an ounce of grammar in them knows it's 'Oprah's and Gayle's Big Adventure' not 'Oprah and Gayle's Big Adventure,'" Krista wrote. "Everything I read, you leave off the possessive on Oprah's name and it is grammatically incorrect. It is so tacky."
"Grammar Girl" Mignon Fogarty gets to the bottom of this possible grammar gaffe. As a technical writer and editor, seeing the same mistakes over and over used to drive Mignon crazy. So she decided to enlighten others by sharing her "quick and dirty" language lessons online as Grammar Girl.
Despite Krista's insistence, Mignon says the possessive originally used in Oprah and Gayle's Big Adventure is correct because of the rule of compound possession. If people share something, Mignon says, they share an apostrophe-s. "So it's 'Oprah and Gayle's car,'" Mignon says. "They go on the same road trip, they share the same car, they share the same apostrophe-s."
If Oprah and Gayle have two different things, Mignon says, it is correct to use two possessives, such as, "Oprah's and Gayle's political views."
Mignon has come up with clever ideas to help even the most grammatically challenged person remember the rules.
Affect versus Effect
As they are most commonly used, affect is a verb and effect is a noun. One way to remember this is to think of the phrase, "The raven flew down the avenue," Mignon says. The words "raven" and "avenue" both have the letters a, v, e and n in them, which can help you to remember "affect, verb; effect, noun."
Correct: On the road trip, Gayle's singing affected Oprah.
Correct: The effect wasn't pretty.
Who versus Whom
According to Mignon, you should use "whom" anytime you could answer the question with "him." This is easy to remember because both words end with m.
Example: Whom do we need to thank?
We need to thank him.
Example: Who is on the show next?
He will be on the show.
Lay versus Lie
Mignon says to remember that people lie and objects lay.
Correct: I lie down on the couch.
Correct: I lay the book on the table.
A name that pops up in viewers' e-mails often is Chris Brown, a 17-year-old R&B singer whose self-titled debut album climbed to the top of the Billboard charts. His first single, "Run It," became a number one pop and R&B hit, and he was nominated for two Grammy Awards in 2007.
Fourteen-year-old Jamese Dunlap, an honor student from Chicago, wrote in about Chris. "Many times I am not rewarded for my excellence. Simple things such as having my parents pick up my honor roll report cards from school or getting congratulated and acknowledged for the 4.5 GPA would really please me," Jamese writes. "During stressful times, I think of my favorite superstar, Chris Brown. Oprah, if I could be granted the wish of meeting my favorite superstar, I would be so ecstatic."
Jamese is in for a surprise! As she sits in the cafeteria at Whitney Young High School, Chris stops by and whisks her away to watch him perform on The Oprah Winfrey Show!
With Jamese in the audience, Chris performs a medley of songs from his self-titled debut album, including "Run It" and "Yo (Excuse Me Miss)."
Chris says he loves performing—and he started early. "[I've been dancing] since I was 2. My mama can tell you—ever since I was little watching Michael Jackson on the TV screen and imitating him," Chris says.
Chris is still in high school and continues his studies on the road with the help of a homeschool teacher's Internet program. Otherwise, he gets to enjoy being on tour with his friends—who are also his backup dancers. "Everybody's just having fun," he says.
The Oprah Show receives thousands of e-mails for Dr. Oz, and a viewer named Laura has a question that many Oz fans want to know! "I was curious to know if Dr. Oz's wife is hot," Laura says. "I think she's got to be hot, you know, because that's a ton of pressure. That man, I'm sure before her eyes are open in the morning, he is on the floor doing yoga poses. I wonder if she wants to slip a little saturated fat powder in his oatmeal in the morning?"
Lisa Oz says there is no pressure to eat right with Dr. Oz at home. "I'm a vegetarian and taught him everything he knows," she says.
And yes, Dr. Oz is yoga-obsessed, but Lisa says she has come up with a great way to deal with it. "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," she says.
As for the hot question? "He thinks I am, and that's all that matters to me."
One letter from a group of longtime friends from San Diego thanked Oprah for accompanying them on their Italian adventure, and they even sent pictures. The thing is, Oprah hadn't gone on the trip!
"Six of us college pals have been friends for 30 years. We have an unbreakable bond," the women write. "Oprah, over the years, you've become a part of our lives. So when we all turned 50, we decided to take you with us on our big trip to Italy."
The group's mastermind, Harriet, came up with the idea to take a cardboard photo of Oprah's face to Italy. "We figured, what the heck," Harriet says. The women posed with it throughout Italy—from the Vatican in Rome to a gondola ride in Venice. Oprah's presence even helped them get better service with cute Italian waiters!
Oprah got a kick out of the trip. "Well, you know I've been wanting to go to Italy, so maybe this was the law of attraction working for me," Oprah says.
An e-mail from Pat Hines in Georgia leads Oprah to meet…Oprah Winfrey! "I once heard you say on the air you didn't know another person named Oprah Winfrey," Pat writes. "Well, there is a 12-year-old girl whose name is Oprah Winfrey. I thought you'd find it interesting that you have a namesake."
Oprah's meeting with the 12-year-old from Georgia is the very first time she has ever come face-to-face with another Oprah Winfrey!
Little Oprah's mom, Linda Winfrey, says she and her husband intentionally chose to name their daughter after Oprah. "When my husband found out we were having a girl, he went, 'We've got to name her Oprah, after somebody that's positive, [who] will be a great role model,'" Linda says. "I'm like, 'That's it! Oprah Winfrey.'"
While the original Oprah says she didn't like her name when she was younger, 12-year-old Oprah loves it! "You're a great role model and I want to be like you, so I like my name a lot," she says.
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