Oprah: Would you ever be in communication with him, do you think?
Older Son: Yeah, I will. I'll be paying him a visit. …
Oprah: And what do you want to say to him?
Older Son: I want to say a lot of things that I'd rather not say in front of you.
Oprah: What do you think it did to you to see your father behave that way on a regular basis? What do you think?
Older Son: I think it made me angry and quick to fight—like not hit girls, but quick to fight guys on the street or something like that.
Oprah: Have you been able to deal with that or talk about that to someone?
Older Son: It's a lot better now. I know how to control it more.