In the time that Tony was abusing his girlfriend, he says he was especially confused about his own behavior because his girlfriend had sex with him after the abuse occurred.

"After the incident, she would go in the bathroom and shower ... and come out smiling and reinforce it with sex," he says. "In the moment, I didn't understand it because ... I was so down that I just did that. ... It kind of confused me. I didn't know if this is what she wanted."