Barbara says Raymond was continually humiliating her. "He had no respect for me at all, and he had no respect for my children either," she says.
Jennifer says her father once locked the whole family in her bedroom and threatened to kill them if they came out. Despite these threats, Jennifer says he didn't often physically abuse her. "There was one moment where he had actually physically thrown me across a room into chair, but never to the extent that he abused my mother," she says.