Today, her first short-story collection, How to Breathe Underwater
, is required reading for all Stanford University freshmen. Dealing with themes of young women in a moment of difficult transition, it was a San Francisco Chronicle
and LA Times
Best Book of the Year, as well as a New York Times
Now, Julie is working on two new chapters from her home in Brooklyn—researching a new novel and mothering her 2-week-old baby boy. In between diaper changes, Julie answered 20 questions exclusively for Oprah.com readers.1. How did you start writing?
When I was 2 or 3 years old, my dad, who was a medical resident at the time and hardly had a minute to himself, sat me on his knee and asked me to tell him a story. He recorded what I said in a tiny book he made from cut-up index cards. We illustrated it together. This became a habit. I still have about 10 of the books we made before I was 5. Titles include The Very Tiny Owl
, The New Baby
and The Bowling Party
. Thanks to my dad, my earliest conception of books included the notion that you could write them, not just read them.2. What book had the biggest impact on you? Why?
I think it had to be Frances Hodgson Burnett's The Secret Garden
, which I read when I was 7 and had the chicken pox. For days, I could do nothing but lie in bed, and I fell headlong into the world of that novel—the world of sharp-tongued and sallow Mary, a natural storyteller who'd been transplanted from India to a gloomy and mysterious old house on an English moor. As she unlocks the secrets of her own family, brings a neglected garden into flower, meets a series of Yorkshire types and tartly rouses her ailing cousin from his real and imagined illnesses, she emerges from her own grief and gloom. The book was a revelation, not just because the world it described was so palpable and real, but because the hero was a young girl and a storyteller—and because the author was a woman. 3. Have you ever read or written a perfect sentence? What was it?
I can't claim to have written one, but I've certainly read many that seem perfect. Here's one of my favorites, from Stephen Dunn's Different Hours
: "If beauty comes/ it comes startled, hiding scars,/ out of what can barely be endured."4. What was the oddest job you ever had?
When I was 23 and had just moved to San Francisco, I worked for a year and a half as the receptionist at a fertility clinic. I learned to say "sperm donor" and "egg donor" in Spanish, French and Cantonese. The parade of yearning, hope, love, loss and triumph that made its way through our waiting room every day was almost too much to bear at times, but when people would come in with their miraculous babies, it would all seem worth it. 5. What is your greatest career coup?
Every writer's life depends on strokes of luck. Not long after I quit my job at the fertility clinic, a junior editor at the Paris Review (the poet and future New Yorker
writer Dana Goodyear) called and asked if I had anything to submit for their new writers' issue. I sent a short story called "When She Is Old and I Am Famous," about an American painting student in Florence who gets a visit from her beautiful and unbearable cousin. The Paris Review
took the story. From that one publication, more or less directly, came a few prizes, a relationship with the literary agent I'm still working with today and a fellowship at Stanford that gave me time to finish my short story collection. 6. Which individual has, for better or worse, had the single greatest influence on your life?
My mother, who was a talented pediatrician and a force for good in many people's lives. Like many women of her generation, I think she felt acute pressure to be successful in her field and close to her children at the same time; the books and records she gave me carried the message that women could do and be anything. There were times, I think, when she really felt the strain of trying to do and be everything at once, but she managed the balance with a great deal of grace. She would come home from long hours at work to play with me or help me with school projects or just to hold me at the end of a long day. Now that I have a new baby boy of my own, I find myself thinking a great deal about how she managed to distribute her energies without spreading herself too thin. Though I don't know if I'll be able to match her balance, it's wonderful to have her example to follow.What talent would Julie Orringer most like to possess?