20 Mini-Lessons Every Happy Woman Knows

Here are our favorite quotes, straight from Oprah herself - mini-lessons you can take with you anywhere.

Lesson 16: Listen to Your Gut

"Your gut is the voice of your higher self. It's your personal GPS system to guide you and to try to keep you out of danger's way. Out of harm's way. That is the gift of fear."

Lesson 18: Do You Eyes Light Up When Your Child Walks in the Room?

"Most of the arguments that you have had in your life have not been about the specific thing but they've been about what is behind the thing that you're arguing about...And if you peel back the layers, what is usually behind the things that we're arguing about is, Do you hear me? Does what I say mean anything to you? Do I matter? That's what everybody is looking for."

Lesson 19: Step Out of the Box

"I love that! 'If you want something you never had, you've got to do something you've never done.'"

Lesson 21: Love Doesn't Hurt

"Your relationship with your spouse, with your family, with your friends all can change if you get this lesson that took me to my late 20s, probably mid-30s to actually fully realize: Love does not hurt."

Lesson 21: Love Doesn't Hurt

"When you trust yourself, it means you don't tolerate being stood up more than one time. ...You don't tolerate chronic betrayal."