Are you in a relationship with someone who has scared you or threatened you? Have you recognized a red flag in your relationship but ignored it? Dr. Robin says if so, there is a good chance that you are sleeping with the enemy—someone who could rob you of your spirit or even your life in the long run. "Make a sure plan and get out with your physical life and your spiritual life," Dr. Robin says.

Dr. Robin says that recent media reports of domestic homicides and murders should be a motivator for you to get out of a bad relationship—or to help a loved one do the same. "We can make sure that their lives and their deaths were not in vain simply by saving your life or the life of somebody you love and care for," she says.