Sometimes it seems like your children just won't listen: They may pretend they cannot hear you when you ask them to clean up their rooms or be home at a certain time. Rabbi Shmuley talks about ways parents can get their children to listen to them.
5 rules for getting children to listen
"When getting kids to listen, it's critical to give them the big picture. Have a talk with your kids about what kind of person they want to be, and make sure they internalize why it's important to listen to you."