If you want to attract a boyfriend or girlfriend who really matches your true wants and desires in a mate, Michael says you need to turn off the computer and turn on the law of attraction. Online dating websites may be able to match you with someone tall, dark and handsome, but they can't find you a vibrational match, he says. "You know how sometimes you meet somebody and just under a second you think, 'Oh, I did not click with them at all'? In that case, I would say your vibrations weren't matching," Michael says. "When you have a high vibration, you will attract other vibrations just like it. That is the rule of law of attraction—it matches vibrations."
In order to find someone who matches your vibrations, Michael says you have to do three things:
Decide what you want.
Give it attention.
Allow it to happen.
You may want to make a vision board or clarity list of what you seek in a person. Don't just focus on physical looks—be more specific and include personal qualities, Michael says. Whether it's someone who enjoys ballroom dancing or someone who loves animals, Michael says you should write down what your ideal mate is and then talk about those traits with others, using your words to send out a vibrational signal.
"The words you use cause you to send a vibration, and any vibration that you send causes you to attract the results," he says. "If you want different results, you need to have a different vibration. If you want a different vibration, you need to change the words you are using."