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Patti Smith
Singer and poet When you look at the face of your child for the first time and you're immediately in love. That moment is total clarity—all of the 37 hours of labor, or that you had a lot of strife and you're going to have more strife tomorrow—there are no questions, nothing. Just love. And that moment happens over and over again. Wintley A. Phipps Gospel singer; founder of president of the U.S. Dream Academy (USDreamAcademy.org) At 16, my heroes in life were musicians. I met one who was so stoned he had to be carried. I was crushed; my hero was incoherent. I met another who had everything—all the money, all the undergarments that women threw at him—but he didn't seem to be very happy. That's where I saw that the best the world had to offer was only an empty illusion. With help and encouragement, I realized there was a gift I could enjoy all my life: the sense of God's presence. From that presence I could have joy, peace, hope, optimism, confidence in the future—everything that rescues you from a life of drudgery and meaninglessness. That dawning is one of the marvels of life. James McBride Author of The Color of Water and Song Yet Sung (Both Riverhead) When I was a boy, my godmother, Rachel McNair, used to sit me down in her living room and make me pray with her—which I did with great reluctance. She'd always pray, "Lord, let me be a blessing to somebody." She would preach God's word to anyone she saw in the Red Hook, Brooklyn, housing projects where I was born. She lived there more than 50 years. She could walk around the projects at any hour. Even the most hardened junkies respected her. When she died at home, peacefully, last year, I saw her just before the funeral home took her away. Her children had cleaned her face, washed and combed her hair. She looked beautiful. And even through my tears, I thought, She has been such a blessing to me. I still dream about her now. I see her smiling. I know she's happy. And her prayer is the one that leaves my lips every night before I go to sleep: "Lord, let me be a blessing to somebody." Ram Dass Author of Still Here: Embracing Aging, Changing, And Dying (Riverhead) The moment I really felt I had found something was when I met Neem Karoli Baba, a Hindu holy man, in the Himalayas in 1967. He told me the manner of my mother's death, which he had no way of knowing, and I experienced unconditional love through him. He made me feel so safe and loved that I went from being a social scientist to a seeker. There was no fear after that; he was the doorway to God. The first time I met him, he said, "Go back to America, but don't tell anybody about me." But I told everybody—it was like finding a gold mine! He died in 1973, but every day—every day—he's present in my consciousness. He's more powerful now that he's not in the physical body, because he's everywhere. A guy recently asked me, "You talk to your dead guru? It's your imagination," and I said, "Yes, that's where I meet him." Tracy Chapman Singer-songwriter Several years ago I visited the American Museum of Natural History in New York City and walked the Heilbrunn Cosmic Pathway. It's an exhibit that guides you through the evolution of the universe in footsteps, 13 billion years in 360 feet. The experience is overwhelming and awe inspiring. You feel humbled by seeing the tiny line that represents the history of humans in the long line of the history of the universe. With each step you are reminded that we are a part of something that is greater than ourselves. And you see that in a world that is everything to us, we are almost nothing. I walked away from the museum that day with perspective, having been reminded that we are all on a journey, hoping we'll make the best of it and that we will do right by the planet, and each other. Elaine Sexton Author of Causeway (New Issues) Heaven When my sister lifted the World War II Army-green flight suit from a bag, our dead mother, as WAC, stepped into her empty pant legs, returned to us quiet as dust. We carried her up from the basement. Mice, nesting in waves of wrinkled wool, left teeth marks in fabric. Her wartime wedding band's vines curled in my palm with an old rosary blessed by Pope Pius VI for my mother, a pregnant believer, in Rome. Still, I refuse to pray on dead wood. Some days, I confess, I caress a circle of painted orange beads with a coconut cross I bought in a zócalo market. Sometimes I find them to finger in secret, walking home from work in Manhattan. Once I found them in a winter coat pocket on a plane as the workers de- iced the wings. You might call this a prayer, a return to that moment, that year I believed God lived in Mexico's mountains. Trees rushed the sky as the sky, itself, gathered thousands of migrating monarchs. I saw them lift off, saw the shape of my body, leaving my body, on a ridge. My body as air. Not one I'd known, or had ever known. Not one I'd seen, or had ever seen before this.
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