What Do You Do If...
O, The Oprah Magazine | From the December 2006 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine
What do you do if your friend flirts outrageously with your husband?
"Don't let it get to you. Have confidence in your own fabulousness and the fact that your husband loves you. She's no match. But the next time, maybe you don't invite her."
— Samantha von Sperling
"That's pretty cool! Be flattered. It means she finds your spouse attractive. But if your spouse flirts back, no wife should tolerate that. You have to tell him, "When you show X attention, it hurts me. I wouldn't do that to you."
— Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
"She is not a friend. Dump her. Seriously."
— Colleen Rush