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Tipping For The Holidays
The gift of money
This year we resolve to tip generously, because the difference between a good tip and a great one costs little but means a lot to the recipient (as any former waitress knows). If you're deciding between money and a present, keep in mind that most people prefer the cash. Who to tip and how much? Here's the lowdown.


According to The Complete Idiot's Guide to Etiquette
Babysitter or nanny: One week's pay plus a small gift

Trash collectors: $15–$20 each

Paper carrier: $15–$25 for daily delivery and $5–$15 for weekend delivery

Mail carrier: As federal employees, mail carriers can't accept more than $20, so $15–$20 is fine.

Doorman: $25–$120, depending on if he works with staff or alone.

Hairdresser: The equivalent of one session (or $25 if you're not a regular salon-goer)

If you're deciding between money and a present, it might help to know most people prefer the cash.
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