How to Really Make a Change at Work and in Life

The Willpower Myth

By Stephanie Losee
O, The Oprah Magazine | From the January 2008 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

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You say you need to make a change, but you can't. You're weak, you have zero self-control. Instead of beating yourself up, you can do what researchers are discovering actually works.

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