Q: I found a wallet and tracked down the owner. I even went to her job to return it, and she said "thanks," took it, and walked away. She didn't even seem grateful. Is there anything I can say to someone who shows no appreciation?

A: "I believe expectations are premeditated resentment. Just let it go and remember to say 'thank you' the next time someone does something nice for you." — Rudy Rasmus, pastor, St. John's United Methodist Church in Houston