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Is It Okay to Sit with a Stranger in a Crowded Café?

Oprah.com   |   From the September 2008 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine
Laptop-toting table hogs: Should you push in?
Jancee Dunn Polls the Experts

Q:
Lately, at my local coffee shop, people with laptops take over whole tables. When it was really crowded, I tried to sit at a table with a guy at his computer, and he angrily told me I was interrupting his work. Was I?

A: "Here is the polite and foolproof protocol: Before you sit down, say, 'Excuse me, is this seat taken?' The workaholic table hog will have to say no and make room for you and your latte. (This also works on crowded trains.)"
Anita L. Allen, professor of law and philosophy at the University of Pennsylvania Law School
Printed from Oprah.com on Sunday, May 27, 2012
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