Q: My husband's first wife spent beyond their means and opened charge accounts without his knowledge. It took him a long time to clean up all the debt, but he eventually did. Now it has come to our attention that she still has a credit card in both of their names. The card issuer contacted him to say that the account was in collection and he and his ex were about to be taken to court. My husband made an installment to buy some time and convinced his ex to set up a payment plan. She made good for a while, then stopped. Her balance is more than $7,000. We obviously don't want to help her, but we need to keep our credit intact. If we pay off the debt and sue her, do we stand any chance of winning?
A: Your husband's ex-wife won't stick with the payment plan, so what makes you think you would ever collect from her? Besides, her making good isn't going to solve your bigger problem: what the unpaid bill is doing to your husband's credit.
At this point, he needs to work out repayment directly with the issuer. That may not sound fair, but your husband failed to check that all joint accounts were paid off in full and closed down as part of the divorce. He's legally responsible and, by making that one payment, he acknowledged as much in the eyes of the card company.
Even if your husband thought his ex was taking care of closing the account, he should have been checking his credit reports to ensure that any joint card accounts were shut down (everyone is entitled to one free annual report from all three credit bureaus by going to AnnualCreditReport.com or calling 877-322-8228). While your husband will be justifiably frustrated, cleaning up this mess will allow you both to concentrate on what matters most—your future together.
Printed from Oprah.com on Thursday, December 12, 2013