Illustration: Peter Arkle
The takeaway: Susan stepped back and saw that her job didn't connect to her values. That's tough to do, but try this: Imagine you're at your 100th birthday party. A friend toasts you by telling the story of your life. What traits and events would you want to take center stage? The highlights reflect what's most important to you.
—Leslie Becker-Phelps, PhD, psychologist
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