If you're going to move on in a few years, then yes, you should renovate with an eye toward resale. You definitely want your home to appeal to the widest number of potential buyers. And for that, middle-of-the-road neutrals are the way to go. The good news is that, according to Remodeling magazine's annual "Cost vs. Value Report," homeowners can typically expect to recoup more than 92% of the cost of an upscale bathroom remodeling job when they sell. But as I mentioned before, the further away from neutral colors you go, the lower the probability that you'll get close to $9 back for every $10 you spend. You can find plenty of ways to incorporate color without imposing your taste on any future buyer. Rather than opting for color in the mosaic and tiles, which are permanent, what about settling for more neutral tones there and bringing in bursts of color with your accessories and fixtures? I'm thinking about the towels, the lighting fixtures, the artwork, etc. When you're ready to sell, it won't bust the budget to convert all those color touches to neutrals.
Now let's talk about your budget. If you're expecting to move in a few years, you obviously don't want to spend more than you can easily recoup. What you want to avoid is creating the most expensive house on your block. It's far better to have a nice house on an even nicer block. That way, when you decide to resell it, your home will be seen as a terrific value.
What about finances? Do you have enough cash on hand to pay for the work, or will you be taking out a home-equity loan (HEL) or line of credit? I think HELs are great as long as you're super responsible. Just because the bank will give you a big, fat HEL doesn't mean you should take it. If you fall behind on the loan, you could lose your dream house when the lender forces you into bankruptcy. Real estate may be a terrific investment, but the crazy appreciation rates we've seen during the past few years aren't going to continue. Things are going to slow down as interest rates rise. That's just the nature of the housing market.
One final bit of advice: I don't want you paying for a lavish, high-end bathroom with money that belongs in your retirement savings account or in the kids' college fund. That could leave you in serious financial trouble down the line.