You got into college because you've proven your book smarts. Now, let's put your organizational skills to the test. When it comes to your college stuff, less truly is more—especially if you have multiple roommates. Having a little more room to move and to think goes a long way. It's time to reimagine your dorm room and make your possessions serve your life, instead of vice versa. Take your vision and make it a reality. Here's how to create a shared vision even your roommate will love.
What You'll Need to Get Started
Download a room function chart
How to Create a Shared Vision
Gather your roommates. Talk with your partner about what you envision for the dorm room. More studying? More entertainment space? Keep in mind not everyone will share the same idea, so be mindful of each other during this process. Having to toss treasured possessions can be a highly emotional exercise for most people. This is a tough job, and you are going to engage in tough conversations, so get off on the right foot together.
Establish a basic premise. The best way to enter a tough discussion is to establish where you stand at the start with respect and understanding. Before you talk about the clutter, talk about what is important to all of you. Discuss what you want the final outcome of this cleanup to be. Agree on ground rules, and return to this initial conversation when things get difficult or uncomfortable.
Don't make it personal. As you discuss your hopes and goals, make sure you don't start blaming your roommate for the mess. Instead of focusing on whose mess it is, think of it as a group problem that you're going to solve together. Don't use words like "yours" and "mine." Talk about the clutter and challenges surrounding it as "ours."
Don't point your finger at others. The goal is to reframe the discussion away from the item itself to its significance in your lives. Here are some questions to help you make decisions about what to keep without starting arguments or passing judgment.