Long ago I spent five happy summers at a girls camp in Maine, where a badge of success was the brown felt "posture band" awarded to poised little ladies-in-training who walked with lovely straight backs
. I must have gotten one at some point, but I can only remember the "improvement bands" that signaled I still had some work to do.
Acting on the theory that there's always room to better yourself, I recently decided to learn how to walk in a way that's both graceful and grounded, fluid and pulled up—in a word, goddesslike. I wouldn't want to vamp it up too much, but I admire the "look at me" way that models move on the runways. I figure it would be nice to convey a similar sense of sureness. A goddess might come by this kind of pizzazz naturally, but models take lessons to make it down that narrow catwalk with all eyes on them in five-inch heels—flashbulbs going off at a blinding rate—looking like they own the universe. So for tips I contact Willi Ninja, a top international model coach who has shared the runway with Iman
, vogued in the movie Paris Is Burning,
and danced alongside Madonna
in her "Don't Bungle the Jungle" benefit. For company I enlist my daughter, Hillary, whose main goal is to learn to move her body in a healthier way.
We convene in the gym of a Manhattan high-rise. Willi is tall, with dark, shoulder-length ringlets sticking out from under a black skullcap. Dressed in a bright orange tank top that displays the finely tuned muscles of a dancer, he's a stunning sight as he demonstrates various walks—from the robotic to the prancing pony. That's the entertainment. Then we get down to the work.
Willi warns us against the most common ungoddesslike faults: hunching, rushing, and not fully extending the legs. To learn the Willi way, the two of us stand against the wall and work on aligning the back of the head, shoulders, rear end, and ankles. Then Hillary and I each amble "naturally" toward a full-length mirror. I am wearing flat shoes and I look like I'm slogging through snow. Hillary looks better, but Willi says we are each bending our front knee as we step forward—the walking version of slumped shoulders. In the next hour, we learn how little it takes to transform a trudge into an "entrance" without looking stagy or self-conscious. Here's the drill.
Hold your head so that your chin is horizontal with the floor (you should be able to look yourself in the eye in a mirror).
Fully extend your front leg with each step. To first get the feeling, exaggerate the motion by kicking your leg out as you step.
Let your arms swing back and forth comfortably (but not too much).
Willi's most useful walking tip refers to pace. "Slow down to convey power and attitude," he says. As Hillary and I take our "graduation" walks toward the mirror, we extend our front legs and check our speed. The changes are subtle: Our walks don't say "look at me," but we stride more confidently than we did before.
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