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If finding excuses to skip workouts made us fitter, we'd all be triathletes. Sports psychology consultant Kristen Dieffenbach, PhD, at West Virginia University, says we avoid exercise because "we've robbed it of any joy. We've transformed it from a natural, stress-relieving activity to something we have to schedule, plan, and create goals for. In other words: another form of stress." Here, some common exercise excuses, and advice on ditching them once and for all.
Excuse 1: "I'm already too busy—I can't deal with one more thing I'm 'supposed' to do."
Too many women put their jobs, obligations, and the people they care for before themselves, says Dieffenbach. "Most wouldn't say out loud, 'I am not as important and I don't deserve the time,' yet that's the only way to translate their actions." Try justifying regular trips to the gym by reminding yourself that unless your needs are met, you'll have trouble meeting the needs of the people counting on you. "Self-care is key to caring effectively for others," says Dieffenbach. "If a friend called and requested some of your time, you'd make it available. Be that kind of friend to yourself."
Excuse 2: "How can I exercise when I'm always tired?"
"First you have to realize that there are two types of energy—physical and mental—and that they feed off each other," says New York City–based trainer Kacy Duke, author of The Show It Love Workout. "Chances are, you're mentally tired from sitting at your job all day, and you need to get your blood circulating to rev your engine again," she says. "Tell yourself, 'I will do just 10 minutes.' And grant yourself permission to call it quits if you're still slogging after 10 full minutes. Eventually, you'll make the connection that feeling tapped out means you need to move more, not less."
Excuse 3: "I'll start out gung ho, but I know I'll get bored and quit."
Predicting failure is a classic way of protecting yourself, says Dieffenbach: "Rule out success, and you don't have to try." Find out what's behind your pessimism by listing the negative thoughts that occur when you picture yourself exercising, she says. One common roadblock is a fear of failure; a new routine can be daunting. If you're put off by the thought of setting up an effective—and safe—workout, consider spending a bit extra on a personal trainer to get you through the challenging first few weeks of an exercise regimen.
Get The Most Out of Your Workout
From the April 2009 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine
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