A tutor gave me this book of narrative poems when I was in seventh grade. Even though I was young, I related to the author so much. Some lines are so moving that I think of them when I'm acting and need to convey something sad or difficult in a scene. In "Cambridge Elegy," the narrator talks about her boyfriend, Averell, who died in a car crash: "Ave, I went ahead and had the children, the life of ease and faithfulness' ' ' 'every millimeter of delight in the body, I took the road we stood on at the start together, I took it all without you as if in taking it after all I could most honor you." It's sad and hopeful at the same time—the idea that she feels having a happy life is the best way to remember her lover.
— Amanda Peet
Printed from Oprah.com on Thursday, December 5, 2013