Does size Matter

There are many factors, don't jump to feeling inadequate (my husband does the same thing). For me, in order to climax during intercourse it's the position and friction on the clit with the base of the penis that matters which can be hard to achieve - it's a lot easier with a vibrator. The length and thickness of the penis affects how we fit together and thus if we get that position, but that can change with changes in my body (I know his penis hasn't changed, but my body changed with pregnancy). So to answer your question, size matters but it's not one size fits all.

Size doesn't matter as much as men thinks it does. That is something you hear men say not women. It seems to me that most men are basically about the same size, or at least the men I have known. I don't know why men think that women lust after large penises, large penises hurt and I would run from a man with a large penis. And as for your wife using a vibrator on her clit ,don't take that personal, because most women take a longer time to climax than a man and it has nothing to do with the size of his penis. she was probably trying to close the time gap in an itempt to have a mutual climax. Most women can't climax from intercourse alone. A woman's clitoris is the equivalent of the head of your penis, there is more sensation in the clitoris than the vagina. FOREPLAY means more to a woman than the size of a man's penis. Take your time with foreplay. That is what women REALLY want. Spend some time kissing her, kiss her neck, the back of her neck, slowly kiss your way down her back as you take her blouse off, turn her around, kiss her passionately on the lips, her neck, and kiss and fondle her breasts like it is the first time you have seen breasts and do it with PASSION and wanton lust like that is something you want more than anything else in life. and take your time! Slowly and passionately kiss her everywhere that can be kissed . If you do that then by the time you finally get to her clitoris she will be begging you for sex. Then bring her to orgasm by whatever means neccessary (oral sex - on the clitoris - not the vagina, and manual stimulation of the clitoris with fingers or a sex toy) And do that BEFORE you try vaginal sex. I f you do that she will probably have a second and / or third orgasm when you finally do get around to vaginal sex. And you will have her wrapped around your little finger , not to mention the bragging rights about her multiple orgasms. Awesome sex (especially from the man she loves) makes a woman feel LOVED, and that is what women really want ... they equate sex with love. Take my advice and you will get all the sex you want, she will be begging you for it. I know because that is how my husband is.

This is completely accurate. I agree 100% with all, except the penis size. I have been with a man with a small penis. It did negatively affect my enjoyment of the sexual experience. Also, sadly, at least in this case, the man with the small penis seemed to feel insecure sexually, which was a turn off.

William, do not worry about the size of your penis. Most woman can only have an orgasm with her "clit" being stimulated regardless of the size of a man's penis. I am a woman, and I know this. Some woman never experience orgasm because their husband doesn't know about the clit. Your woman is lucky, you know about her special spot!

sorry william, but I believe that size does matter, a smaller penis slips out and it is difficult to find a position that allows the woman to feel and enjoy it inside her

I have to say that some size is important, but for the most part : Men have to know what they are doing! touching, feeling,kissing and moving his body and penis just right.... it all takes a big part in a women having an orgasm. Women tend to think to much about all kinds of things and that also can interfear with a womens orgasm. maybe its not you, maybe she has some kind of fear or issue with her self.

William

1. If your size is around the average size and you wife is around average size THEN size doesnt /shouldnot matter. ( and dont go by the average size on porn sites!!!)

If you are way below average, garth or width, and or your wife is way bigger/looser/deeper than average then things will be alot sloppier and harder to achieve penetrive climax. And if you are bigger, thicker and or longer, than average and or your wife is tighter, smaller or shorter, than average then this also can interfare with penetrive satisfaction.

2. Position Position Position. There are several positions that will achieve a climax through penitration alone.

3. Combination of both penetrive and clitiral stimulation both at the same time or alternatively

4. No to Climax's are the same what works one time might not another.

5. Take time out. I seriously suggest that you have a day together (or more) alone!!! where you do nothing but be together and get her to a point of complete and utter relaxation, the more she is relaxed and comfortable, the more she will be open to a climax in another form. DO not make this the aim for the day (or more) but aim for complete 'connecting' emotionally and spiritually, and you might just be surprised.

Personally, there is this one position, that with his hips doing more of a 'rocking' motion than a 'in and out' (if i can say that without gettin into trouble) that really does it for me.