Dear BrnWheel

* I was also abused as a child, in sexual ways. I have done much growing and understand in the area. I know there are many spiritual ideas and psychologal ideas in the world. There are many religions and ways of looking at and dealing with life and issues.*

* My thought is that there is much truth in many different idealoligies. There is also many faults. No one group or idea is one hundred percent correct. Even the Law of Attraction Idea. It is great in a lot of ways, but like everything else, even the way you make you bed, has negative and positive things involved in it.*

* This is the part you need to hear! Here it is. You, in no way, Are responsible for what happend to you as a child! In no way, what so ever! Not in this world or in the spirit world. You did, could not have, had those vibrations. The Adult that abused you, had problems with it. Made a decision to behave in a perverted manner. To Shame a child and Rob that child of their innocence. You were that child. You have not one miniscule, tiny, infentesmental part of blame, shame, or responsibility in the matter!*

* I am a spiritual person. A Practitioner in healing with many different spiritual techniques. And physical ones And emotional ones. The secret to a healthy, happy, fulfilling life is balance. Balance between mind body emotions and spirit. So, take what you know, are going to know, and balance these different ideas and beliefs. Make them a harmonious whole. Throw out what is not loving to yourself and others. Love you first and foremost! It is the foundation for everything. Look into inner Child work. Especially John Bradshaw! Start there. Then, down the road, you will better be able to assimilate and weed through all the differing ideas floating around this wonderful planet. If you want to pm me feel free to do so. Harpo Bear is suppose to be working on my user name. So, send it here, or to my old one, artcrystal. I'm not sure which will be up and running in the next couple of days.*

* Love Bright Star*

I believe this problem can be addressed with the understanding that there are other laws at work in addition to the law of attraction. Just as we have discovered some governing laws of physics and mathematics that have some influence over each other, I believe there are universal laws that impact the law of attraction. I also think that when people adhere to only the law of attraction and they narrow their minds in this way by saying that survivors of abuse "attracted" it, that it's no better than saying a woman deserved to be raped because of what she wore, or a wife deserved to be beaten because she was not obedient to her husband.

Thank you for the reply.

This is at least my third or fourth time doing this it seem, first time was my late 20s, then 30s, and now 40s, each time I see different things and heal at a deeper level it seem. This time it is about the anger, fear, and confusion. I have also changed my diet, and included brain wave entrainment.

This time around I am dealing with the betrayal of my love. I moved away from the family, but could not accept or acknowledge my Grandmother's role in the abuse, which continue as gossip until she died. Her last few years of life, I did a lot of things for her out of love and because she need someone who love her to come around. The family members who had participated in the abuse with her, did not really care about her either only her money, because she had abused them as well.

Luckily, my faith in God is strong and I have been shown many things, which in a way kind of makes it harder. Because I do not understand why God allowed me to experience this horrible thing, which place anger and rage in my heart. Now, i am seeking the love, harmony and peace that was in my heart and soul on the day I was born.

I think that God can't change a person's mind once they have used their free will to make a choice. So if the adults around you were sick and cruel it was their choice to allow this to influence how they related to the children around them. There was nothing God could do about it because of free will. Maybe this is just a lie I tell myself in order to better cope with my own abuse history and losses I have suffered and survived. Who knows? But whatever these people did, it is not your fault or your responsibility. What you can do, and what you are doing, is choosing to recreate yourself as a more loving and compassionate person who does not abuse others. There is allot of strength, beauty, resilience, and grace in your decision.

You are right! It is just so hard to understand, when you are single out from a group of children, and it continues through adulthood, until you just walk away. I know, as I continue to search for peace and understanding my higher self will give me what I need to close this door once and for all.

The good new is I have made it this far, and I am not addicted to anything, even stopped drinking a few years ago. So, I am working through this by the grace of the spirit within me. I must say I still have moments of intense anger, luckily it only last a few seconds now.

The big thing for me now is to attract loving, honest, and balance people to me. I just left a job, that was a recreation of my family union. I was able to recognize the vibration, but it did not go as well as I would have liked. So, I still have work to do to overcome the vibration.

I have run into a problem with my belief in the "Law of Attraction".

I was abused as a child. How can an infant, toddler, or small children have thoughts that would create this vibration.

I understand how the core belief that was form as a result of the abuse has cause me to attraction negative people.

But, I still do not believe how it started in the first place.

The Law of Attraction , does not Work as a law of thoughts , but of Spiritual forces , that are unseen .

If a person thinks , a certain thing , and believes if they think it , they will get it , what they really are taping into , is the Law of Faith .

Jesus said if you have the faith of a grain of mustard seed , you will get what you ask for and believe .

The principle of faith , seems to work with people who believe In God , or not .

The second way the Law of Attraction Works , is in the DVD the Secret , a gay guys was thinking how people were treating Him bad , because He was Gay .

The more his expects in His thinking , that people are going to treat Him bad , the more people treated Him bad .

As soon as He shifts His thinking to more positive , the problems seems to go away .

The reason His thinking , caused this , is because Satan seeks whom He may devour .

That means , He looks for weakness in people . When People Worry or fear , they release Spiritual energy , or vibration as you call it .

*To Satan or demons , this Spirit of Worry or fear , is no different than a man in the Ocean that is bleeding and putting His physical energy or life blood in the water . This blood , will** attract *sharks .

When a Flesh Human , which is a spirit house in flesh body , worries or fears , this realises the Persons , spiritual energy and is bleeding Spiritually , which is just like bleeding physically .

So , demons , or even Satan himself , are drawn to this , and can sense this energy .

When you Worry or fear , you are bleeding and in a weakened Spiritual State , in which demons can get access into your spirit , it opens up a Spiritual portal of entry , so they can feed on your energy .

As far as you being molested as a child , in the wild , the loins always go for the young .

Satan in the bible , is described as a lion .

But Satan needs a vessel to enter into , to do damage .

When a person accepts thoughts and agrees with thoughts of Molesting Children , once again , this Attracts the demons , and gives them a portal of entry , Because this is one of the greatest desires of Satan and opens a Spiritual gateway into the person .

Satan destroyed Adam and Eve , who were the original innocent children of God .

Satan still loves to destroy Children .

When a person Accepts thoughts of Molesting Children , this open a portal into their spirit for the demon to enter .

These demons that enter into a person like this , are very , very Powerful , once they get access into the persons Spirit , they will not leave , and the person is a child molester for life .

Only the Spirit of God and the power of God can free them , which requires a supernatural miracle , as powerful as a physical healing .

So , you were a victim of Satan , but Satan could not have did anything to you , if a person did not accept thoughts of molestation , and agree in their heart and spirit with these thoughts , which open a gateway for Demons to enter them , and do the greatest thing Satan likes to do , which is to Attack , innocent children , like Adam and Eve .

Please check your private messages.

Satan is a Christian belief. I do not buy it...nor am I buying the God in the sky that is always loving and protecting us.

Too many children are abuse by Christian because of the stupid scripture "Spare the rod and spoil the child"!

Whether you believe in the law of attraction and then must believe all accidents, criminal act etc. in your life are of your own 'making', or you must reject this idea and see it for what it is; nonsense.

No one attracts abuse, the idea is preposterous.

This whole idea of attraction simply can't be true.

There seems to be a transfer of negative energy from one generation to the next.

It is like the people, who are abused as a child, then turn around and do the same thing to a child or worst.

Instead of moving in the opposite direction and seeking to protect, they harm, which is just crazy to me.

The more I study and learn about this world, the more confused I become, because none of it makes sense to me at this point.

If God is love then why all the hate.

If we have free will, then why can I will the wounds of the past away, instead of this struggle to get beyond the wrong that was done to me.

Forgiveness is great, but it does not remove the pain or the memories......................!

Because you need to leave the guilt behind and accept things for what they are.

Forgiveness, starts with "self", when you can do that, then you can forgive other's.

Be open and honest despite the fear. You are in control of you, taking responsibility for that now will help you to move forward.

Carrying around baggage of the past is just that, life will be be a drag..

Jinda

interesting............"Because you need".............what makes you an authority on what anyone needs to do....none of us know until the spirit

moves us of what we need to do to feel better and do better...........! I would think a born again save by the blood of Jesus Christian would already know this.

>interesting............"Because you need".............what makes you an authority on what anyone needs to do....none of us know until the spirit moves us of what we need to do to feel better and do better...........! I would think a born again save by the blood of Jesus Christian would already know this.

That's not based on assumption?

And all of those issue's that you are posting comes from a place of where?

Thinking is a useful option, it helps when it is used.

What is a "born again save by blood of Christian" again?

It must be a new church?

Wrong again thinking is in the brain...emotions are in the heart and the soul.

Child abuse is a wound and unless you have been affected by abuse why bother to comment on something you do not understand!

oh, sorry, let me correct the typo........lol..duh ........."SAVED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS , CHRISTIAN"!