Forgot to say; age is pretty irrelevant!

Hi, If age is irrelevant then I am here to get connected with the people. Does age matters in finding the friends ?

Hi Camille

I'm both from and live in the American South and am older but am certainly willing to talk to you! Denmark! That's a place most American Southerners don't really know much about and I'd be very interested to learn more about it and you. Most of us here are of English, Irlish, and Scottish descent but that's all due to immigration to America centuries ago and few of us know who our ancestors are past the great, great, grandparent stage.

Anyway, if you want to correspondend, just say so. I'm sure we can find something fun to talk about!

gracie

If I understand your question correctly, then you ask if it is possible to find freinds with age differens. Sure is it possible! But young people like me, of course have to be carefull. But when that is said, then it can be very giveing.

xx C

Well!

I am waiting for a bit more private messages.. Don't hold your self back Just do it if you wants to. It could be alot of fun, and many interesting conversasions.

X C

i would like to join u.i am also lonely and i need some1 to talk to.

i am from South Africa and i am 28 years old and i have been maried for 6 years.My husband and i are having problem communicating he is always bizzy to spend time with me i dont know what to do i feel like i have been married for 50 years.please i need any advise i can get because idont want to loose him and for the last 5 years i have been trying to get pregnant but no luck.anyone please talk tome:_|

Dear Lerato,

I'm sorry you are feeling so sad. Do you work or have friends to talk to? Getting out in the world will help you feel less isolated. How about support from your family? Maybe your husband can't be everything you'd like him to be. That can be an overwhelming responsibility for anyone. If you have a life of your own you'll feel better about yourself. Also, have you seen a doctor about problems getting pregnant? I hope this helps and you feel better soon.

hi Aspen

thank you for replying.i am working with him he owns his own shop so i am working with him until i start working and i we moved 500km away from my famaly and my friends are also 500km away .honestly there is no one to talk to.

i try telling him how i am feeling but he thinks that i want too much attention.I am trying to accept him but some days are worse than the others yesterday i cried my heart out because i feel so empty.We are two different people i am a South African and he is from another country so sometimes i think this is the problem.

i went to so many doctors they said that there is nothing wrong with me anyway i have a daughter from a previous relationship.

i feel better alraedy now that i spoke to you.

Hello Camille,

I hope everything is going well for you. I live in the USA but I am originally from Central America. I would enjoy writing in here. What are your interests in general?

Hi Lerato

I'm glad I could help. I've heard that stress can make it difficult to get pregnant. Maybe once you are settled in you will feel less stressed out and you'll get pregnant. That's too bad about being far away from family and friends. We all need someone to be there for us. Could you talk to them online? Your husband may be concerned about his business and it must be hard working together. I think when you start your own job it will take some of the pressure off your relationship. Take care.

Thanks Aspen

we call each other now and then with my friends but its hard to tell them over the phone.My husband is concerned about himself but anyway i think things will get better.Its hard working with him.I dont think stress is causing this problem,my husband he was injured playing soccer and then they had to remove one of his testicles so sometimes i think it may be the problem because he was married before and they never had kids now the x-wife is married and she has two kids.I told him lastnight taht we must try to see the doctor both of us but he said he is not going to take anything we will get the baby when God wants to give us. Last time he took the tests we were told he has low sperm count but he doesnt want to do anything about it.

I am sorry to hear what you are going through.Maybe you must give your husband time and he will think about taking a treatment,dont push him he will do it when hes ready to do so.Please dont loose hope on him in time he will come around.

Hi, Lerato!

Just wanted to check in with you, see if you're feeling better. Maybe you and your daugther could go visit back home?

hi ,i have been missing u.i think i will take your advise and go home during school holidays.And how are you doing?Thanks for checking up on me and for the advise.

I'm busy working and getting ready for the holidays. Can't believe Christmas is around the corner! I'm glad you and your daughter are going home for the holidays. I think you'll feel better. Let me know how it went. Take care.