God - get rid of him quickly. HE IS USING YOU. He is selfish and immature. He WILL ALWAYS be that way. It's called the Peter Pan complex and he will never grow up. He may seem mature in other ways, but something deep down will never change for him. He is kind of sociopath - he thinks your attractive, and likes the company, likes going out to eat, etc., but doesn't actually have deep feelings....for anyone. If you hang around that fine with him. If you start to make any demands - adios!

You are wasting your time; and he is watching himself hurt you as you try to figure it out. Even though he said he doesn't want to hurt you. By him saying this he thinks he is off the hook for his behavior (i.e., you won't be able to come at him with his being dishonest with you or anything actually - he is safe). His behavior is creepy. It's a game where he covers his bases from the get-go. Get away from him quickly.

He said "he wanted something casual" end of story right there. You either accept what he is offereing or get yourself out. If you don't get yourself out you have only yourself to blame.

Wow, cosmic... I think you are totally wrong. Im going to tell you the truth. I dont know your age or location but the guy is telling the truth . He is playing his cards up front. He is not a sociopath . He like many other men have women in there past who jumped the gun and have tryed to entrap them. It happens all the time. I have been there. You have to decide that you want out of this relationship. I can be with someone have feelings and understand someone with out needing to be tied down, There is no waiting line at the wedding office but a huge line at the divorce court. You can get married in a day but it takes years to get divorced. I also think that you have to set rules down. I dont think this is creepy since He has status. All celeberties have simular issuses, Look how people hound them , I know that influences outside of the relationship can totally destroy something that is fantastic. In starting this relationship if you accept the choice he is given you then you realize that he may in fact be playing more then just you. I also think there is times in life where you need to do whats best for you no matter what the outcome. If your in my age range talk to people that live in this decade , People who have lived the same years 20 years ago were totally in a different world. Lots has changed in the past year alone.. Not to say in 10 years or more..