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Click to view tclaiborne's profile tclaiborne 11 posts since
Nov 17, 2007
Reply 15. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 17, 2007 11:44 PM
I thought their house was in dire need of repair even without the excessive junk/trash.
I'm glad they were treated to a cleaned up/redecorated house and I hope Sharon has gotten the help she needs to overcome her problem.
Let's remember folks, this is a tv show....and this made for good tv. It was one of the best Oprah shows I've seen.

I am always amazed when people complain that someone got help. I can just see them stomping the ground and going, "but what about me???" Just be happy for the person whether you think she deserved it or not! I mean good grief, she definitely needed help!
Click to view spngal's profile spngal 423 posts since
Sep 25, 2007
Reply 16. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 18, 2007 2:30 AM
All I can say to this is ... some people are just very insensitive, and nothing much can be done about that except educating them.

You don't know any hoarders...to be certain .. true hoarders have mental health issues. If you did personally know someone who is a hoarder, trust me, you would not be taking such an ignorant stance on the issue. It's not just about 'collecting stuff' everyone does this to a certain degree. In most cases, serious hoardering is a symptom of a greater problem. A virtual team of medical professionals, therapists, family members and cleaning services need be organized and work together to resolve the problem.

That this family received a fresh start is nice, but the real challange will be for the family to stick to a long term plan to stem the hoarding tendencies. So that in another 5 years they are not looking at digging out from under all the mess again.
Click to view christa197's profile christa197 34 posts since
Nov 16, 2007
Reply 17. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 18, 2007 5:45 PM
in response to: tclaiborne
She needs help getting a kick in her behind.
Click to view suhenna's profile suhenna 569 posts since
Sep 28, 2007
Reply 18. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 19, 2007 8:04 AM
in response to: holligan
I can't imagine the selfishness of a person to own 3,000 pairs of shoes and 3,000 purses.

Not sure how old you are but do you remember the fuss made about Amelda Marcos shoe extravagance. People were outraged at this evidence of greed. This happened in 1986. Now in 2007 it is starting to become acceptable because of people like Oprah with her shoe extravaganza. Not to mention Arnold Swartzenegger is so proud of his shoe collection, evidently, his wife nicknamed him Amelda Marcos.

What an example these two alone are making on society. I am disgusted by this self-obsorbed behavior. They are truly disconnected from reality. When will people realize this behavior of selfishness is truly mental illness do to egotism, selfisness and aquisitiveness.
Click to view spngal's profile spngal 423 posts since
Sep 25, 2007
Reply 19. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 19, 2007 8:22 AM
in response to: suhenna
"When will people realize this behavior of selfishness is truly mental illness do to egotism, selfisness and aquisitiveness."

The really sad part, (speaking from experience, not to mention in reading the real life stories here) are those that believe a serious mental health issue (OCD and ADD, among others) has anything to do with either. You are right about one thing, those people that need medical intervention really are disconnected with reality, hence why those who can't understand mental health issues are quick to critize it.

My hope is that the couple will continue to recieve community services, or all the assitance they've been blessed with would have been in vain.
Click to view suhenna's profile suhenna 569 posts since
Sep 28, 2007
Reply 20. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Nov 19, 2007 10:11 AM
in response to: spngal
I would really call this both mental and spiritual problem True wisdom and love does not manifest itself in pure egotism and selfishnes such as this.
Click to view jad9123's profile jad9123 2 posts since
Dec 4, 2007
Reply 21. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 4, 2007 8:06 AM
Most of you are coming across as very judgmental. What fear within yourself is this touching, to cause you to react this way? This woman has a life-destroying mental illness. Compassion for anyone who is suffering does not mean condoning behavior that destroys her life and the lives of those around her. It is only if you view life as a zero-sum game, that you might feel that "if she has more then I have less." Life is not a zero-sum game, and that view of life only limits you.
Click to view christa197's profile christa197 34 posts since
Nov 16, 2007
Reply 22. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 11, 2007 8:39 AM
in response to: jad9123
I wish I could "suffer" with 3,000 pairs of shoes and 3,000 purses. It has been a while now since this show was taped and I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that womans got a house full of crap again. Her husband should have taken away her ability to shop and spend. She shouldn't have access to credit cards or their banking accounts. I soppose the polite thing to do is say, "I hope she finds a way to overcome her "illness". But, I really want to say, "what a crock."
Click to view cath1976's profile cath1976 7 posts since
Nov 5, 2007
Reply 23. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 11, 2007 10:02 AM
in response to: spngal
Gosh... it's like saying to people with eating disorder that they're just too vain or lazy!
I suppose the production team just wanted jump start their lives again. But I guess they chose the wrong way... Perhaps they could have used the S$13,000 to redecorate their home instead. And in addition, do an estimate of how much she has spent. Is it possible? 75,000 kg!
One sure way to help her/them recover, is to get involve in community projects. When you start looking beyond yourselves, a lot of problems will dim.
Click to view cath1976's profile cath1976 7 posts since
Nov 5, 2007
Reply 24. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 11, 2007 10:06 AM
in response to: christa197
Don't speak too soon!
Maybe Oprah can do a spot-check. Has she ever done such a thing to those she has helped? I think it's really about accountability.
Click to view vchavanne's profile vchavanne 14 posts since
Dec 29, 2007
Reply 25. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 29, 2007 8:32 AM
in response to: ca1956-2
it would be lovely if it was appropriate to let it rest. but i live in new orleans and it is still pompeii. i think you're arrogant to think this isn't an issue for all of us. there are good people here who just want a normal life, with hospitals and police. that isn't too much to ask for as a human being.
Click to view moonhues's profile moonhues 1,506 posts since
Sep 17, 2007
Reply 26. Re: Hoarders get treated too generously! Dec 29, 2007 10:26 AM
in response to: vchavanne

Not at all sister.

You are true on that.
FYI I too am from New Orleans and one of the fortunate ones that did not have to go trhough the storm. Pompeii is a exceptional way to describe it.


Who could ask for more then a normal life. I wish people would redirect their energies and passion toward things like this rather then beat up on someone who truly has a mental illness.

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