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I thought their house was in dire need of repair even without the excessive junk/trash.
I'm glad they were treated to a cleaned up/redecorated house and I hope Sharon has gotten the help she needs to overcome her problem. Let's remember folks, this is a tv show....and this made for good tv. It was one of the best Oprah shows I've seen. I am always amazed when people complain that someone got help. I can just see them stomping the ground and going, "but what about me???" Just be happy for the person whether you think she deserved it or not! I mean good grief, she definitely needed help!
All I can say to this is ... some people are just very insensitive, and nothing much can be done about that except educating them.
You don't know any hoarders...to be certain .. true hoarders have mental health issues. If you did personally know someone who is a hoarder, trust me, you would not be taking such an ignorant stance on the issue. It's not just about 'collecting stuff' everyone does this to a certain degree. In most cases, serious hoardering is a symptom of a greater problem. A virtual team of medical professionals, therapists, family members and cleaning services need be organized and work together to resolve the problem. That this family received a fresh start is nice, but the real challange will be for the family to stick to a long term plan to stem the hoarding tendencies. So that in another 5 years they are not looking at digging out from under all the mess again.
I can't imagine the selfishness of a person to own 3,000 pairs of shoes and 3,000 purses.
Not sure how old you are but do you remember the fuss made about Amelda Marcos shoe extravagance. People were outraged at this evidence of greed. This happened in 1986. Now in 2007 it is starting to become acceptable because of people like Oprah with her shoe extravaganza. Not to mention Arnold Swartzenegger is so proud of his shoe collection, evidently, his wife nicknamed him Amelda Marcos. What an example these two alone are making on society. I am disgusted by this self-obsorbed behavior. They are truly disconnected from reality. When will people realize this behavior of selfishness is truly mental illness do to egotism, selfisness and aquisitiveness.
"When will people realize this behavior of selfishness is truly mental illness do to egotism, selfisness and aquisitiveness."
The really sad part, (speaking from experience, not to mention in reading the real life stories here) are those that believe a serious mental health issue (OCD and ADD, among others) has anything to do with either. You are right about one thing, those people that need medical intervention really are disconnected with reality, hence why those who can't understand mental health issues are quick to critize it. My hope is that the couple will continue to recieve community services, or all the assitance they've been blessed with would have been in vain.
Most of you are coming across as very judgmental. What fear within yourself is this touching, to cause you to react this way?
This woman has a life-destroying mental illness. Compassion for anyone who is suffering does not mean condoning behavior that destroys her life and the lives of those around her.
It is only if you view life as a zero-sum game, that you might feel that "if she has more then I have less." Life is not a zero-sum game, and that view of life only limits you.
I wish I could "suffer" with 3,000 pairs of shoes and 3,000 purses.
It has been a while now since this show was taped and I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that womans got a house full of crap again. Her husband should have taken away her ability to shop and spend. She shouldn't have access to credit cards or their banking accounts.
I soppose the polite thing to do is say, "I hope she finds a way to overcome her "illness". But, I really want to say, "what a crock."
Gosh... it's like saying to people with eating disorder that they're just too vain or lazy!
I suppose the production team just wanted jump start their lives again. But I guess they chose the wrong way... Perhaps they could have used the S$13,000 to redecorate their home instead. And in addition, do an estimate of how much she has spent. Is it possible? 75,000 kg! One sure way to help her/them recover, is to get involve in community projects. When you start looking beyond yourselves, a lot of problems will dim.
it would be lovely if it was appropriate to let it rest. but i live in new orleans and it is still pompeii. i think you're arrogant to think this isn't an issue for all of us. there are good people here who just want a normal life, with hospitals and police. that isn't too much to ask for as a human being.
Not at all sister. Who could ask for more then a normal life. I wish people would redirect their energies and passion toward things like this rather then beat up on someone who truly has a mental illness. |
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