Where did all the gosh dang money come from, Why didn't the farther cut her off at all the stores, close bank acounts to her. Does he have any retirement left who was paying for this stuff. It looks like hundred's of thousand of dollars. I know she is sick and needs help but.... to hurt your family, not see your grand kids, barley see your husband, Give her an allowance once a week. This is much more that just shopping for a good buy. Her issues go real deep with each of her family members, 1St one is husband you got got the money I am going to spend it, number 2 oldest son moves out she doesn't like the wife, that is written on the wall, no one is good enough for my boy. He chose his wife, and that could be for the rest of their kids also, husband if you love someone you stick with them so you can take care of them, She didn't need to be taken care of she was well feed she knew where her house was he should have saved himself and all the money and used it for her doctor bills, or if her family was so well taken care of then give the money to charity. Problem IS major but I believe it started with some kind of selfisnish, it was there and got worse as people left home and passed on to a better place, then it is an excuse, oh we will clean it out tomorrow now she is a procastinater let's do it next week, then never I need it all evey single thing, sad yes embarrassing for all of her family you better believe it they all need counseling. Good luck! This show has made me go clean out some closets get rid of shoes and clothes to battered womans' center toys are going to TOYS for TOTS, Mens clothes the homeless shelter, Give it away if you can to those places, if you give it to Good Will which is not a bad company but they charge for the clothes, go to the shelter and hand them out with the staff you will feel great for doing it, just watch there faces. GOOD LUCK AND GOOD BLESS!!! PLEASE TRY FOR YOURSELF IF YOU CAN'T THEN DO IT FOR YOU HUSBAND, WHILE YOU STILL HAVE HIM ( not meant to be mean) truthful.