hadas1

Dear producer Julie,
First of all Good luck! It seems you are already "a fish in the sea".
I am writing to you from Israel (surprised?). I watch the Oprah show and I know and feel that it has a great impact on people all over the world. As an Israeli woman living in Israel, I wonder if an unusual optimistic life story "made in Israel" could give your viewers a "if she can do it I CAN DO IT!" moment.
Living in Israel is no picnic but this is my home, I was born here and my family lives here. I've been around the world and lived in other countries. To make a long story short: I am 36 years old, a former IDF officer, a mother of 3 daughters (7,3.5 and 2 years old) and I own my own self made business. The unique side of my story is that I decided to employ ONLY people with special needs in my factory (mentally ill people) since I believe there are almost no dignified job offers for them due to their condition. I employ 60 workers for over 4 years, all of them mentally ill. I have no professional education in the field of psychiatry or social work. I am purely a business woman owning a profitable business. During the recent Gaza war our factory was under the aiming missals, and we gave a direct instruction not to come to work for their own safety during these dangerous times but to my surprise they came daily because it gave them a reason to get out of bed every morning. The type of work they do in my Factory is a creative, esthetic and colorful job and not the kind of job you would normally see in sheltered factories (box packaging, paper folding etc.). My wish is to show others that a business can relay on people with special needs that NEED a chance to prove that if given the faith and the respect they deserve, they can be an employee just like any other person and sometimes even better. My workers share with me their ideas, give me advice on how to improve the production line and above all they come to work every single day! Imagine what could happen if they stayed in bed for all this time? Some of them might not have got up.
I manage this business by myself, my husband works in an entirely different field. I run my own chain store that sells ONLY the factories' product and at 4 PM I am a mom at home with my daughters and run my business by emails and phone.
I found the formula for owning and managing a business + supporting the community.
I do not donate, I am not "doing them a favor" I simply prefer to employ those who are less likely to find a decent job over others.
I can honestly say, with a hand on my heart, that even though I taught them the working technique, they are a lot better then me.
Getting YOU out of bed - is my dream job!

erclerk

Julie I totally feel for you, I am the same way when it comea to being techno savvy!!. My idea for a show is talking more about the empty nest syndrome. I know this subject has been talked to death, but there is alot of us middle age women who feel lost now that the life we have lived for many of our adult years has went away. I know I work full time and have a husband and home,but my life feels like there is something missing and I am not sure how I get myself back. I need advice on how to appreciate me and live for me now. I always took care of everyone else and I am not sure how to take care of me. I feel guilty when I do things for me. I have never had a manicure or pedicure or massage. Never had my hair done and buy clothes when I have too. I guess I would like to see a show on how to let go of those feelings of everyone else is first and I am last. I know there is alot of women out there like me.

producerjs

Mar 18, 2009 10:17 AM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Wow! I applaud your work as a mother in and outside of the home and all that you are doing for the 60 folks who might not have a job otherwise. You are giving them hope and dignity and purpose. What greater work is there? Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post. So wonderful to hear from someone all the way in Israel!

producergs

Mar 18, 2009 12:58 PM

  |   in response to: producerjs

ATTENTION PEOPLE OF THE WORLD: As one of Julie's fellow Producers at The Oprah Show (and one of her best friends), I can tell you with all certainty -- Ms. Julie is NOT exaggerating... She is NOT techno-savvy -- AT ALL!

But trust me -- she makes up for it with her amazing creativity, imagination and sheer devotion to all of you -- Oprah's viewers. Be sure to keep an eye on her blog and tune in to all of her shows... They're truly MUST SEE TV!!!

gmcniece

welcome & kudos to you for stepping ¿outside your box!¿ I , for one, am glad you are here¿I really can't believe it, I have read only two other new Producer's Blogs, but haven't gotten to yours until just today¿just picked it randomly¿I see the first comment, AND it is SO similar to what I have been wanting to write Oprah & this show about! talk about the ¿Law of Attraction¿¿this is giving me chills¿so, here goes¿since you asked¿

I¿d like you to consider taking a look at autism & employment. my youngest son, who¿s 20, has high-funtioning autism. he is joy in a bottle & always has been. he did well in school, graduated 12th grade & tried college. it was not for him, however, so now, he is simply working, gaining ¿real life¿ experience. it has been frustrating to see him so far below his potential, yet in light of so many factors, from the economy to his comfort level, we are grateful he is simply able to have his job. it is hard for employers to see him as ¿anything more than¿ for the most part, though¿as a parent, I want to see him grow, learn and become independent¿I continue to research for possibilities¿so many parents are where I am, and SO many more will be, based on current statistics of diagnosed cases of autism...I really feel this is a HUGE wake up call for our country...He's speaking in tiny whispers, as Oprah always says...

a few months ago, through ¿Google¿ randomly, I discovered a company in Denmark making a HUGE difference in the lives of individuals with autistic spectrum disorders in their country. it is a job training & placement service whose mission is to use the characteristics of autism in a positive way to provide valuable services for the corporate sector on market terms. their vision is to prove to society that people with ASD can be equal contributors to the development of our society¿to give people with ASD the opportunity to use and develop their special skills based on their own qualifications, strengths and ambitions.

I feel so strongly that our society, the world we live in, is going to change drastically by having ASD individuals in the ranks of our workforce. we see so much on the news about the growing number of children diagnosed with autism. these children will be where my son is now in the blink-of-an-eye. our country needs to ¿step up¿ & look at the MUCH bigger picture as to how and where will these individuals ¿fit into¿ our world in a productive way. if your show could take a ¿broader¿ approach to how we need to be looking at the face of autism, allowing families to see what IS possible as these children grow up. Focus on ALL the amazing gifts and talents these kids/individuals have, allowing for people to celebrate them instead of talking about a cure. families affected by autism need hope, things to look forward to & they need to get REAL about the possibilities of the future. Work needs to be done now in the corporate sector to use this growing population. Employers need to think ¿outside the box¿¿autistic individuals really are "specialists"...fitting them (and others with special needs) into really specific areas, using their gifts, is such a win-win! just as my son, they love to go work, just to get out and smile at everyone...joy, I tell you...and productivity? they are hard workers and can add a brightness to our workforce like no other, but companies need to know WHAT they CAN do...maybe you can help start a buzz...

maybe if your show could do even a small segment on this company, it might help light a fire in our country. I feel with all that is happening economically, it might be good timing, too, for a change and a shift in how we look at placing individuals into jobs as a whole.

Julie, I will send you a link to that company privately. thanks for listening! ~ g

clm6875

Hi Julie. My name is Cheryl Miller and my suggestion for a show would be on congenital heart defects. I just want to bring awareness to the number one birth defect (kills more children than all of the childhood cancers combined), and yet... I was so unaware of its prevalence. What better way to bring attention to it than the Oprah Show. I have a grandson born in August of 2007 with complex CHD. It's amazing what this has done for our lives (you take nothing for granted), but how awesome the doctors are with this. We need more awareness to bring more research and better the life expectancy for these children. Please help me bring awareness...show others what the child and family goes thru. Thank you.. Cheryl Miller clmiller@packagingcorp.com

sdw510

Hmmm...I would like to see more shows where Oprah can display her fun side. Granted we are in an economic crisis uproar, many people are upset over the Octomom's decision to have more children, Chris Brown and Rihanna domestic matter, and the list is endless. I would like to see a show that celebrates the lighter side of life (there are great writers amongst the Harpo Staff, I know someone's creative juices will flow freely and can come up with a phenomenal idea).
Until then, I suggest that Oprah surprise guests with a fun and fabulous make-over. If she is in need of a volunteer, I gladly throw my name into the pot. Do you know how hard it is trying to maintain your hair after a strenuous workout?? I walk into the gym looking "half-way" cute; however, when the trainer is done with me, I look like the Wicked Witch of the West!! LOL!! And, I have no sense of fashion after shedding a 100-pounds. How do you dress a new body when you have always hidden it??
I hope this post is taken with the desire that it was written: fun and light-hearted. We are bombarded with awful news everyday as soon as you turn on the television tube...it would be great to escape one day and just have an episode where you can watch the Oprah Show and after the final credits have run, you can turn the television tube off with a smile still plastered to your face...and it wouldn't hurt if I could go to Chicago and meet Oprah and leave with a smile plastered to my face and maybe a free Oprah mug!! LOL!! Am I simple or what?? LOL!!
Take care and continued success with your blogging,
Sherry D
username in the Oprah Community: sdw510
Look me up! =)

jamesali

LOL- It sounds like a fun office Julie-

Shows I'd like to see more or less of....
I don't know what kind of show this would be called so I'll just tell you this- I'm an Oprah show junky. I have one of those impoverished backgrounds sad stories blah blah blah but since I was a teen I've religiously watched, read and tried very hard to follow the advice given by Oprah's most inspiring guest; Dr. Dyer, David Bach, Dr. Phil and alllll the books they've written. I have no doubts they've absolutely changed my life! The problem is I now believe I have a right to expect my dreams to come true. I'm inspired, but don't know what about. I wait, I think positively, I meditate, I network. NOTHING. I'm still an uneducated frusterated unfilled woman with a great big heart but not a lot else. So now what? What expert can hone in on what exact life sustaining measures I need to take to find and live my passion. Who will tell me to keep dreaming or to stop and just be happy I woke up in my right mind (least I think I did.) An Oprah intervention show maybe?

Congrats on your blog! I have a feeling it'll be very popular,

Ali
Ali@SmithBuildingServices.com

crsaffran

It'll all come together Julie! Just wanted to submit my idea for a show. I think it would be a great idea to have a survivor show in October to honor breast cancer awareness month. As a 6 year survivor and mother of two young children I think it's my responsibility to make other young women aware that it can happen to them. I was 26 years old with a strong family history and my drs. still couldn't believe I had breast cancer. Following my dx., chemo, radiation and the birth of my two children I had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction. I never could have made it through without my online support group of Young Survivors. Breast Cancer is still viewed as a post-menopausal diagnosis, but there are thousands of women who receive this diagnosis in the teens, twenties and thirties.
Thank you for considering this idea!
Chrissy

missjules

Wow this is amazing...that I can drink my morning coffee and start the day with such inspiration. Okay, so I too am an Oprah Junky, but not just for the show.(right now we don't have cable so I am deprived, BIG CRY)
I love all things Oprah, whether it is her movies, her televison or radio work, her magazine, just her aura. The woman is incredible and we all know it. So from one Julie to another,I thank you for your blog. I commend you for getting it started. I am on MySpace (started it to watch over my teens pages) as well as on Facebook, and I used to be like you, un-tech like and all, but in a short time I feel like I am quite the Pimp Mama Blogger....lol okay, sorry, that went too far.
I am Truly Julie. I have been writing Oprah for over ten years. Mainly utilizing her as my internet guru or therapist, perhaps as many of my letters are so cathartic. Oprah is my role model, my hero, my example, my friend. I have been considered for many a show although this is never my ultimate goal. I want to contribute any way I can and if my opinion or feelings or thoughts help I feel I have done so. I have been told when you don't use someone you keep their pics and stuff. I have often wondered if this is true, for if it is you have a pretty big file on me. I just hope I'm not in the stalker file (I have sent a few birthday gifts as well).
I have a strange sense of humor, I often worry if I am misunderstood, but I am who I am and that's all I can be. At forty I can finally say I LOVE myself faults included.
I read these ideas that others submit and think they are all viable and must be worked on....I hope someday they are. Yes! I want to see more breast cancer survivors. Bring them on!! Yes! Teach us about congenital heart defects. Yes! let's help those who are otherwise left behind and feel lost and forgotten. Oh Sister, I have been there many times. Yes! Let's raise the mentally challenged up to their highest so that we DO have a world where people care about EVERYONE. (I wrote a play last month and one of my characters is autistic, he ends up saving the day in the end. Can't wait to produce it!) Yes! Let's see Oprah have more fun. I can help with that one too. I teach Hoola Hoop Fitness now (got certified 4 days before my 40th!) I have had four children and gained 400 pounds between them all, and I have never felt better in my life. It's the most fun you can have while working out and it creates and hour glass figure. Let's get Oprah into the HOOP!!
Okay Miss Julie that's it from me today. I will be following you and the rest of your crew, as I so appreciate all that you do. Peace and Happy Days.
Truly, Julie

bluebina

Hi Julie,
Welcome to the world of blogging. This is my first time leaving a comment. I usually just read everyone else's comments. But the suggestion I would like to make for a show are actually two things. First one is adoption. I know I would love to hear more stories about it and about the process. Alot of people don't know that you have to pay a large amount of money to adopt a child and maybe more people would if they had the money. Most kids just want someone to love them. My next suggestion would be a show on polycystic ovarian syndrome and its affect on women. If Dr.Oz can expound on how these women can lose weight because it tends to be very difficult for them with all the hormonal changes and difficult to conceive. Thanks for listening!

bluebina

Hi Julie
I am not the most tech savy person either. But I believe that you will eventually get the hang of it. I thought that I would leave you a couple of suggestions i had for a show. The first one is a show on a adoption. It would be nice to see success stories and an informative piece about it regarding the cost and process of adoption. I beleive more people would if they could afford the intial cost. Especially when so many children need homes and someone to love them. My second suggestion would be to do a show on polycystic ovarian syndrome. It affects a lot of women. These women have a hard time trying to lose weight because of their hormones. It would be nice if Dr.Oz can expound on the subject and their frustration trying to conceive or infertility. Thanks for listening!

dilehmk

Mar 19, 2009 2:16 PM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Hi Julie, that is wonderful you stepped out of the box, blogging. I'am not teck savy at all, the first time I taught myself how to use the computer, was scared it blew up, still learning, hang in there!!!!!!!

dilehmk

Mar 19, 2009 2:23 PM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Hi hadas 1, the mentally ill people are sooo inspiring, love working with them. Were I work, they either go to school or have to work, unless retired. Keep up the wonderful work, the rewards are priceless!!!!!!!

debbied121

Hi Julie,

this is my first time ever blogging. But I am so desperately trying to find out what eyeglass frames Oprah was wearing on her show on Mar 2 or 3rd I think. they are the brown frames with the gold logo on the sides Please if you can inform me I am dying to know so that I can go buy them glasses they were absolutely beautiful. My email is debbied1116@comcast.net. I am also on facebook as Deborah Marie DiGirolamo. I would appreciate any info you can give me. Thank you so much. Keep up the good work everyone in Boston, MA and I love the show.

memberl

Ok being that the people in this world is busy, with their on children they have no time 4. THEY NEED 2 DESCUSS THIS BECAUSE ITS THE MAIN REASON CHILDREN DO THE THINGS THEY DO AND BE LOST IN LIFE BECAUSE THE LOVE,GUIDANCE,AND ATTENTION THEY DONT RECEIVE AS CHILDREN. FEEL LIKE ITS SUMTHING THAT NEED TO BE TALKED ABOUT FOR THE SIMPLE ITS GOING ON AND BEEN GOING ON FOR THE LAST 3 GENERATIONS AND THE WORLD WILL ONLY GET WORSE IF COUNTINUE SO FOR THE KIDS HAVING KIDS THEY CAN SEE AND RELIZE WHAT IT IS THEY NEED TO DO TO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE THERE PARENTS MADE. AND LACK OF LOVE IN LIFE CAN EFFECT GOALS IN LIFE

swrust

Hello Julie,
I¿m an Oprah fan and I respect and applaud the work involved to create such a class act.
I just saw the teaser where Oprah discus¿s the loss of her dog.
I understand the importance of family pets (we have a shi tsu, and our life is better for her).
A pet loss, pails in comparison to my recent loss. On March 12th, at the age of 92, the patriarch of our family, Julius F. ¿Rusty¿ Rust passed away. I wish we had the resources to tell the world about our father. His wife (my mother), my brothers and family feel his worth was way beyond this world.
We gave him a send off within our means. Very Honorable.
It still doesn¿t comfort mother, who, at age 82, calls this week ¿the worst thing that has ever happened to her¿.
My brothers and I understand life paths, and we enjoy our middle class life. Dad taught us work ethic, so although we¿re not rich, we¿ve rarely wanted.
I¿m not complaining, I¿m glad Oprah has the opportunity to relate the feelings of her loss. I¿m sure it will help people.
I guess I envy her ability to tell the world about her loss.
God Bless,
Stan Rust

stelling1

Dear Julie,
I applaud the show that aired today regarding spousal abuse and would like to see a show dedicated to what our religious institutions are doing about this epidemic along with the issue of child abuse. As a member of the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod and a survivor of abuse, I have spent the past five years trying to get churches to speak out about this crisis.

In 2007 I authored a resolution that was sent to our triennial National Convention(approx. 3,000 attendees)requesting that a task force be formed at the Synodical level to address this issue. During the week long convention 72 resolutions were presented and only two were presented by women - I was one of the female presenters. The resolution passed with a 95.5% "yes" vote, and this was a very emotional milestone. Since July of 2007 funding has been sought for this project and as of this month the task force was finally appointed. It is a start, but will take a very long time before tangible results are seen.

If our churches are supposed to be the repositories of the moral values of our society, where is their righteous anger and moral outrage regarding this issue? Why are our churches silent? Why does "pro life" only refer to defending the rights and advocating for the unborn - what about advocating for defenseless children? Why aren't our religious leaders speaking out more forcefully against abuse from the pulpit?

During the past five years I have been lecturing nationally and conducting workshops to educate clergy, nurses, teachers, counselors,university students and congregations about ministering to the spiritual needs of abuse victims. My main point is that we need first and foremost to tell victims that they are innocent in the eyes of God regarding the abuse done to them. Not forgiven, but innocent. When you tell someone they are forgiven, it implies that they had something to be forgiven for, some culpability in the act. When you tell that to a victim, you re-abuse them. They need to hear of their innocence before God to help them get beyond their shame and to liberate them spiritually.

I feel strongly that one of the major ways to get religious institutions involved would be to spotlight and highlight the issue in a very public forum like the Oprah show. The precedent has been set by today's show and this could be an expanded follow up on a very serious crisis that needs more than one or two shows to motivate people to become more proactive in preventing abuse.

Thank you for the wonderful and timely topics that Oprah continues to present and focus on. She and this show are a tremendous catalyst for educating the public and causing positive changes to be effected in our society.

I also sent this email to you as a private email, but I thought I'd enter it here also just to be safe since you're new to the whole techno scene.
Peace - Diane Stelling

daringd

Hi Julie

Congrats on your first step towards blogging. Hope it didn't take too much of your time to maintain it.

As for ideas for show, I was wondering if it's possible to have a show that talks about people who are confused about their lives (like me). Where one can't find a niche ... don't know what to do ... don't know what they are good at ... no specific hobby or talent ... what can such person do to propel their future further?

Especially in this recession time where people may be retrenched, I believe there are many lost souls out there too. And if there's a way to shine some lights on our paths, that will be really helpful.

It's really easy to say to "trust your guts" but what if your guts don't know what to do too? Then, what's next?

Thanks for reading this, Julie. Not sure this idea can be something you can work on but I really hope for all the best for your team.

D.D. (from Singapore)

abeckerb

Hi Julie! I think you have a great idea for a show right here in this blog! Older adults learning how to live in this new tech-savvy world. You know, people without cell phones, people who don't know how to work a computer, those of us who have to hunt and peck to type. I think that could be REALLY interesting!

chrisbas10

Mar 20, 2009 1:39 PM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Julie,
I know exactly what you are talking about. In my day a computer was something only large companies have and the thought of a computer in every household was sci-fi let alone 2 and three computers.a facebook was an instruction manual on how to put on makeup and as far as Twitter goes, it was never good to be a "twit". Phones had a dial, and we had 3 channels on the tv and what the heck was a remote control? We went out side to play and yes we were in better shape. Compared to then we live like the Jetsons.
Thank you for helping us all "live our best lives" no matter what the circumstances.

funniwench

Mar 20, 2009 6:12 PM

  |   in response to: erclerk

Dear erclerk--in response to your post, how about finding a cool cause to sink your teeth into? At the end of the day, your reward is a manicure, a massage, a new pair of shoes... a treat for being a brave new woman.

I write girl-power songs for a giant crew of girls that they record in a local barn for fun. The lyrics help them get a clue. It's a fun gig. I'm 53 and it keeps me young. My kids have flown the coop just like yours- but this thing I do is a great way to remain a "mom"--just more a "mom" in the universal sense. It's very Oprah-esque but I'm not on TV every day haha.

If you loved being a mom, then mom the world now. Look outside yourself to play, maybe, instead of pondering pondering pondering all day long. If you hated being a mom haha--then be a kid for a while now. Guilt is boring. It's judgemental. Stop judging yourself.

Another thought: Maybe Oprah can have a talented contest for women over 45 and it'll go like this: pick something you're terrible at but have always wanted to do. Video-tape yourself doing it. In a year, after practicing like crazy, video-tape yourself doing it again. Could be anything--singing, sky-diving, tennis... Whoever improves the most, they get to show off on Oprah.

All you need, girl, is a goal--an inspiration. But why wait for Oprah to lead the way? Just be creative. Find a fun dream,get on it, and hug your husband a few extra times a day. Hugs work wonders. And goals.

funniwench

Dear Julie--I replied to someone who sounded sad on this page..I can't stand it when people feel sad! but now I'm kinda sorry I wrote all that because I'd really like to reply to your "idea" request. Is it okay to write twice on the same page? Hope so. Would hate to have bad form.

Okay. So here goes. In the work that I do, I produce/write songs and record teenage girls. I submitted a reality video of my giant group of teens to your show way back when, so I won't repeat all that blah blah
but but but

There is girl who's been in my Crew from the very start (years) that would be such an inspiration to other teenagers, moms who feel fat, anyone with a dilema they feel is too big for them to handle. I have always told her--I wish I could just put you on TV to show the world what a great attitude can really look like!

This girl, Oh my God! Now 19, she's as wide across as she is tall. She has troubled skin, the sweetest face, diabetes--she has to walk around with a monitor. She's hispanic and hangs out in a town full of perfectly built blonde beauties (Santa Barbara) all around her. She's adopted and dad, between us, is lovable but constantly forgets to pick her up, that she's around etc etc. He's busy at his own party, and her mom died when she was very young.

Once, during a Crew rehearsal, this girl patted her big belly and said to me, "Yep! I'm fat!" with the cutest, sincere enthusiasm that I fell in love with her for life. This girl does not believe in staying unhappy--she doesn't seem to notice that she's got a lot on her plate. She chooses happiness and that's it. She's always been like that--like this miracle person who just decided one day she was in charge of her mood and that was that. I believe she figured it out at ten, when her mom died, and she had to become her own parent.

That's it. I just had to tell you about this girl who is so remarkable. I play mother hen to a whole lot of teenagers--but this girl has never needed one word of advice. She could be the teacher. She could lead us all. Diet? Forget all that. Life is beautiful.

urbmarket

Dear Julie - Between you and I and everyone else on this thread I think this blogging thing is a bit overrated - you know what they say you can't beat em join em. My suggestion is for a show, a magazine edition, an ongoing blog, and an Oprah surprise audience get away or tour. Okay, here goes it..As the Michelle Obama and Oprah O Magazine is about to be released wouldn't it be great to do a show on Girlfriends. The Power and Strength of Girlfriends. Besides Stedman - the most talked about relationship Oprah has is her relationship with her Girlfriend Gayle, How about doing a show featuring famous Girlfriends-Courtney Cox and Jennifer Anniston, etc..and the show is a Girls Night Out. As a follow up - O Magazine could do a magazine dedicated to featuring Girlfriends famous and those who aren't famous, the magazine could cover the Oprah Girls Night - the show and the magazine would cover what makes their friendship special, the bond that they share and how the Girlfriend relationship is more unique than the husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and the mother/child or father/child relationship. You actually share more with you Girlfriends than anyone else in your life - you share things about your mate, about your children, your job and your deepest darkest secrets. I make this suggestion as an official expert on Girlfriends. I own a venue in Philadelphia called Girlfriends and we specialize in Girls Night Out, briidal showers, baby showers and all things women. The women have said that this place is annointed, that the experience is spiritual - more than anything I believe its because they are able to lay all their burdens and troubles down in a wholesome environment with their Girlfriends. The Girlfriend bond is unbelievable and unbreakable and I believe it would be a phenomenal show - when the ladies come in for a Girls Night Out they have dinner, they get rose petal foot soaks and foot massages, they can learn how to pole dance, belly dance, salsa, get tattoos, full body massages, make their own perfume, make up and eyelash extensions, facials, manicures, and pedicures, make their own charm bracelets. Last year we hosted Will Smith's mom, her daughters, and friends and family. Imagine Oprah hosting a Girls Night Out with all her favorite Girlfriends and Rihanna - embracing this young starlet with love and encouraging her to be strong and sowing all the love that Girlfriends have to share into her...wow!

mullenmi

Hello Julie!
I have a show suggestion for you that I think would fit right in with Oprah's mission. I just learned that on May 5-6 the CARE National Conference and Celebration will be held in Washington, DC. I would love to see Oprah host a show from D.C. focusing on issues affecting global development and how WE can make a difference. Guests might be Gwen Ifill, Wolf Blitzer, Tracey Neal, Richard Gere, and Christy Turlington, along with Michael Franti as a musical guest. I think it would be wonderful for the audience to take part in a private screening of A Powerful Noise as well. And, finally, the icing on the cake would be for Oprah to select some lucky winners to join her in D.C. for the events.
Thanks so much for all you do!
Fondly,
Michelle Mullen
Milwaukee, WI

ncampbell4

Hi Julie! I think The Oprah Show has amazing topics that always somehow connect to people all over the world. I am a huge fan and have watched the show for most of my life. I would really love to see a show on suicide awareness. Suicide takes the lives of nearly 30,000 Americans every year. Many people who attempt suicide never seek professional help. Over half of all suicides occur in adult men, ages 25-65. My father is one of them. He committed suicide 9 years ago when I was 16. He left behind me, my mom, and my three siblings. My father suffered from severe depression and never recieved the necessary help to prevent the horrible tragedy that occured in our lives. I just believe that suicide is one of those topics that people are scared or embarrassed to talk about. If more people knew more facts, heard more stories, and learned what help there is out there, the statistics could chanage. I've always wanted the story of my father to be heard, but was always scared and a little embarrassed. Now that I've been educated on the topic and coped with his death, I am finlly comfortable talking about it and helping others who have gone through the same thing. I truly believe that a show on suicide awareness would be a huge hit. Thanks Julie for all you do!

ncampbell4

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joyann3

Mar 22, 2009 10:45 PM

  |   in response to: daringd

I really wanted to respond to you. Most people have there days of feeling lost. Trust me..maybe everyone so you are not alone. However I just wanted to say to close you eyes and think about what would you want to jump out of bed for every morning and be financially rewared for it. I am not saying to be a rocket scientist if your not trained. Think simple and what you are capable of. Education really is the key to freedom and maybe learning a skill on line or maybe you are a great cook or you love flowers..maybe floral arranging. I am just saying that your gut is hardly ever wrong go with that girl. And it also sounds like you could use a great positive book like the 'Secret' for example. I wish you all the best. I don't know you but I read your comment and I could truly relate to what you are saying.

joyann3

Hi Julie so many graet ideas I've read so far. I would like to comment on one or two.The hiring of Special Needs in Isreal and the story on heart defects. Both very dear to me. I am a mother of a beautiful little girl with Down syndrome who was also born with two holes in heart and one valve. She is nine now and had her surgery in the USA eight and half years ago.She is doing great. However the employment situation for mentally challenged people is non existant this part of the world. I am from Barbados. Her grandmother has asmall piece of agriculture land and I have started to plant some vegetable to sell. My nine year old daughter is actually helping and we plan to take her on the weekends ONLY to deliver the vegetables to the supermarkets and to learn about business. One might think it strange but when she was born the doctors in Barbados said "dont expect her to run a business". Boy am I going to prove them wrong.I don't expect her to be a Donald Trump but she will make her mark in this world. The money that she will earn from her business will go towards her education and medical if necessary.So there is hope to ALL you parents out there with Your Exceptionally Gifted Kids.Start them early.

Now the show idea..stay with me Julie...You did shows in the past about people who left there jobs(big jobs) to follow their dreams. Well with the current job losses taking place in the US and everywhere for that matter. I would like to see 'Career Day on the Oprah show. There is a big difference between a job and a career in my opinion. And to some of the people that lost their job it could really turn out to be a blessing in disguise.
You get people to write in about there unemployment situation but you ask them about the real hidden talents that they posses. The talent that they never got to use.The one that makes them want to roll out of bed every morning and be financially rewarded for it.You want to encourage people on the bread line to now pursue there dreams of owning a small business. You will need marketing experts on the show to answer questions along the way. Remember many people have talents eg. Floral Arranging, writing or cooking(but no marketing skills)...or maybe they will come up with a business idea that requires small capital. But the show will give them hope to GO OUT there and start. To make it more interesting someone like Sir Richard Branson surprising maybe one person by partnering with that unemployed but talented individual who came up with the a great small business idea. There are hundreds of legitimate investors who I am sure this will also appeal to. Other names "Do you have what it takes to come up with a great Small Business idea."...or "Can you turn your talent into a Small Business Idea?" You would also need to feature a few sucessful small business owners. Julie if you do this and rope in a few legitimate business investors you would have not only contributed to boosting the USA economy but the world as well...Well thats my contribution..Keep up the good work and the blogging skills will come.

hadas1

Mar 23, 2009 5:32 AM

  |   in response to: dilehmk

Thank you! I appreciate it very much that you took the time to read and replay to my comment. Hope it will inspire others to find ways to combine these wonderful people in the employment circle.

katie728

Hi Julie! So glad to see you are blogging! Nice to be able to interact with you guys! As for a show idea, I think that dating with cancer is a topic that would help and inspire so many of your viewers. There are so many young adults out there with cancer who are single trying to continue with their lives through all kinds of treatment. That includes dating. I of course speak from experience! I was widowed at 25 years old, and diagnosed with breast cancer at 31. I had a mastectomy, reconstruction and 6 months of chemo, lost my hair and continued to date online through it all. I have had people ask me why did I continue dating when I had cancer. I told them it was a way for me to feel like I was still living a life. Working, going out with my girlfriends and dating were big parts of my life that I didn¿t want to stop just because I had cancer. Dating before my diagnosis was hard enough! Then it became a lot more tricky without a breast, scars, and no hair. But I found a lot faster whether someone was with me for the person I was inside since my outsides were scarred and my head was bald! At the end of my chemo I met a man online who had just lost his mom to breast cancer only a month prior. We began dating, were engaged 6 months later and this May we will celebrate our 6th anniversary on the same day as my 8 years as a cancer survivor! So I am proof you can find great love after loss during a very tough time in life. Life can go on in the face of cancer. I write about these experiences in my memoir ¿Breastless in the City¿. I wanted to share my story to inspire others to keep on living life when you think you can¿t. There are issues that surround dating with an illness such as cancer, like disclosure and body image because of surgical scars that I think need to be brought to light to help the many people living with cancer. I would love to share my story with Oprah and all of her viewers. Thank you for your consideration. Keep blogging!! Cathy Bueti, Brewster, NY

awright711

Why was my post about a show regarding the Canadian seal hunt taken down?

love2ya

Hi Jules - I'll toss an idea for the show at ya! How about gathering some fabulous older ladies (the over 70 crowd or like my mom, the 88 year olds!) and let them share their simple contribution stories with us about how they made the world a bit better. I know my own mom grew up in a poor part of town but saved her pennies during the depression and bought candy for the children living in the orphanage. In fact, she met my dad there and they've been happily together for some 68 years now. Plant a good seed and you will provide shade for generations to come. Sometimes you don't have to make a huge contribution, just plant a tiny seed. Love to you.

joyann3

Hi Julie. As stupid as this may sound the only way out of this economic crises is to "Forgive All Debt" to ONLY those who no matter what they do will be forever sinking into a deeper hole. Hence I am thinking of who can we bail out and whose debt can we just simply write off and still be okay. Sometimes you wonder that if man invented this whole money thing then why couldn't we just manufacture more? Doesn't the 'stimulas package' money have to be made? I would like Suzie to answer that one. Governments bail out big companies. Its happening here in Barbados right now.I am not talking about forgiving debt to credit card people who just go crazy at the malls.But lets pick a few stories as to how they got into that "toxic debt" and lets see who will bail them out. We need to start FRESH.It's the only way. I am not a bible thumper but didn't God flood the earth to get rid of all the evil with the intention of making a fresh start?
Well I say say to pass it on. It would be interesting to see who is willing to help who by writing off "Toxic Debt".By "Toxic Debt" I mean investments of things that really don't have any value to the owner and they are still paying for them.Think about what you are paying for right now that absolutely has no importance to you. Maybe it has some value to someone else who can afford to buy it from you and make it into something worth while. They say that one mans garbage is another person gold.

kimers00

My idea for a show: something on emotional, verbal, psychological abuse. I dealt with this sort of abuse as a child and didn't really begin to start finding resources to help me until the other day. I am 26 years old and I have accomplished alot given the circumstances, but I could have done so much more if I hadn't "fallen through the cracks."

Many times this kind of abuse is at the root of other types of abuses (physical and sexual) but it can stand alone as well. The thing that bothers me most about it is the fact that it really has a profound impact on the life of the abused, yet it isn't properly screened or addressed in our society. No doctor, teacher, school nurse, or anyone ever pointed out what was going on with me. They just wrote me off as a "bad student." They didn't look deeper to understand why I wasn't engaging in the classroom or in the work. Literally, I just put two and two together within the past few days. I have just identified and found information about this which is helping me to take back some control that I lost a long time ago to this form of abuse, and I can't tell you how valuable a few days of clarity on an issue like this really is.

For me, and for the millions out there that only wear the scars on the inside, please do a show on this form of abuse. We don't have advocates, and there are no tell-tale signs outside of our experience and our self-doubt. We lose our voice in the process of this and you can be a voice or a beacon of light that will help millions of people to regain the peace of mind of being able to simply be and to express themselves freely.

dilehmk

Mar 23, 2009 5:06 PM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Judge Judy was on Larry KING , CNN, very good. Was surprised she is not tech savvy, admire her for it. She would be good on Oprah, LOVE her answers, to all questions asked!!!

dbyraq

How about the importance of women supporting women......

I must say as I struggle (my life has been very difficult) - and I know I will succeed - the men have been the most supportive. the women have been the most damaging. Why can't women respect other women.....why do they have to feel threatened and have this urge to 'put the other woman down' in order for them to look good? The same goes for relationships - why do women not respect men that are taken? As Steve harvey said, "Men cheat because the women are willing to cheat with them"......!!! We give away all our power and respect! W O M E N ! ! ! ! ! Let's respect, support and encourage one another............LIKE OPRAH DOES!!!!

joyann3

That show with Steve and Oprah is a tough act to follow. But I'm sure that you and your fellow producers will top that. I would like to see a show about 'Break Ups'. How did your relationship end? Did he text you? Did he put it up on Face Book that you were through? Or did he stop calling and thought you were a mind reader? They are men that will show the side they want(even after the 90 days), do all the things on Steve's check list and leave you without explaination. You then question youself and ask "what did I do"? Lord knows then it's time for the girlfriends to come over with the Kleenex to tell you everything that you probably DON'T want to hear. So I would love to read from your members about what he did or said when he was leaving you (if he said anything at all) and then follow up those stories with a show.I am sure you can find a celebrity to appear with Oprah that is willing to talk about his or hers.What do you think Julie?

g00dnews

I think it's time to revisit a topic from ten years ago on Oprah: Why is the news media so negative? Back then, murder rates were plummeting, yet coverage of murders rose 433 percent! ... Today, when consumer confidence is CRITICAL to our economic health, the media harps over every lay-off yet doesn't report on the many companies thriving. Yes, things are bad, but many things are good... I am founder and managing editor of the Good News Network, a positive news subscription service, and I'm telling you that IT IS A MYTH that good news doesn't sell. In the past week alone, after getting some national publicity on NPR, which told people we actually exist, THOUSANDS of DOLLARS flowed into my Paypal account in only a couple days, with people eager and clamoring for good news in their lives. (It's still coming in.) The Good News Network is a simple, elegant website serving a simple purpose... to provide concrete HOPE, seed optimism and encourage the public with uplifting stories from around the globe... I always thought the Oprah audience would love this. Let me know if you agree.

sandyb514

I would love to see a real honest show on the downside to gastric bypass surgery. Which would not be gaining your weight back. It would be watching my daughter suffer 6 1/2 years after gastric bypass and on December 21, 2008 watching her die at age 26. Cause of death malabsorbtion, osteomalacia, vitamin deficiency. All as a direct result of this surgery. Please make people aware that this surgery is taking precious lives and really should be limited. I will never be able to have my daughter back, but it was her wish to make people aware of her story. She died with courage and strength that I am still hoping to find now.

king82

Mar 23, 2009 11:16 PM

  |   in response to: hadas1

Hi Julie,

After reading The Plot Against America, I would love to see a show debunking Charles Lindbergh. He was about as American Nazi as they come. Also, he has seven children who are not by his wife. He had a lot with his German secretary, and another set with two sisters...I believe. It made the front pages of German newspapers, across the river...you were lucky to find it in the papers at all. I would LOVE a show on this historical topic and believe it could reach your audience. Take care and thanks!!

king82

Also,

I would LOVE to see Nancy Pearl on the Oprah show. She's fabulous and has introduced me to the world of new writers. She is the writer of Book Lust One and Two. In short, these books take on a genre and give you new titles to read. One heading is "Chick Lit." Other titles include "World War I." Check them out...they're amazing if you like to read and beat the bloody blue blazes out of the overrated kindle (sorry, that thing is only going to be filling up dumpsters, nothing will ever replace a book). And, it's way too expensive!!!!

k9erdoc

I am a veterinarian who works part time at a veterinary blood bank as well as part time as an emergency critical care vet. I would like to bring my 3.5 yr rescue boxer who donates blood every 7 weeks at a local veterinary blood bank. I could talk about the critical shortage of blood and plasma for dogs. I would like to raise awareness for this important topic. I can speak about what we use it for, the 13 different blood types in dogs as well as being the proud owner of a canine lifesaver. Wyatt has donated enough blood to help over 50 dogs and his blood has been shipped all over the country. There are these blood banks around the country where people can take their pets and I can provide info on that as well. Oprahs own dog recently got a plasma transfusion and imagine if that was not available. It is because of dogs like Wyatt. he has also saved my own paients by providing his blood. Please contact me at k9erdoc@comcast.net for more info.

spokehold

Hi Julie, I would like to raise awareness about psychology and dual relationships. Please have a show on this topic. Many believe all is fair in love and war however, the psychological advantage a therapist (of any kind) has over a client in a sexual or dating (dual) relationship once they have had the therapist/client relationship is really unfair. A psychologist should never date or have a sexual relationship with thier client, even after the therapy stops. American Psychological Association (APA) has long recognized that harm and exploitation can result from some forms of dual relationship. The Ethical Principles of Psychologists require psychologists to act to avoid impairing their own professional judgment or increasing the risk of exploitation of their clients through unacceptable dual relationships. I have witnessed such devastating harm first hand. A psychologist (phd) employed as an Executive Coach and Learning Principal of a major defense contractor in the DC area decided to have an affair with one of the executives she was coaching in the company. The psychologist was having an affair or dual relationship with this executive for a number of years. He lost his marriage, family, job and the respect of many of his peers. He went into debt to buy the psychologist (now fiance) a very nice house, a luxury car and trips around the world. He still has not divorced his wife yet. Even though he has already cheated on the psychologist and other ethics complaints were lodged against him and his company for another sexual relationship with another, the psychologist is still with him. Why not? The psychologist has raised her standard of living and secured herself financially for the future through her exploitaions. He destroyed his life and any chance at real love, not to mention his career, marriage, and family. This was made possible by the psychological hold established during the "trust" development in therapy. I believe there needs to be awareness of the fiduciary responsibility of psychologist to keep a distance from their clients in order to uphold their responsibilties and ethics. Not all is fair in love and war. In fact this is a violation of ethics and a matter of protecting the public from psychologists willing to exploit for gain. A show to make people like myself aware that psychologists or therapists should never, ever become a love interest, before, during or after any type of therapy or coaching. Yep, let's have that show!!! I'll help set it up.

tyrylo

Mar 24, 2009 10:30 AM

  |   in response to: producerjs

AH! Julie, I too, remember dragging my electric typewriter to college. I was the bomb back then, typing everyone's term papers--for free, mind you! Now, I'm a happy mother of 3 grade school-aged boys who loves to write (type) and counsel people/organizations on nutrition and wellness. I'd love to see a show on Power Moms! I was fortunate enough to be selected as one of the 101 moms featured (my writing) in the newest Chicken Soup for the Soul series book, Power Moms. It's an amazing book with some special big-name writers. check it out, I live in Chicago and am setting up book signings for the authors and would love to help coordinate the group for a visit to the show. Have the Best day ever!
Beth Aldrich

erclerk

Julie Enlight of the death of Natasha Richardson, I think there needs to be a show on head injury's. I work in a large ER and we see then everyday. We had a ER Nurse infact last Sunday night hit her head hard on a cardiac monitor and she saw stars and couldn't speak for a few minutes and within a hour had a terrible headache and started vomiting. She kept saying she was ok,but we all insisited she get a Cat Scan. She finally got one after waiting 10hrs into the shift. We were so worried for her,it turned out she did not have a bleed,just a good concusion. It could of been much worse. We see so much in the ER of head bleed's after just hitting there head in minor accidents or a fall. People need to know they need to take action if they show signs.

krknutson

I want to see a show about women playing poker. I play poker and it's a man's game and it's fascinating how we have to adjust our thinking to a man's thinking. We are completely underestimated and have to combine our wits, intuition and just plain ole' smarts to win. The poker world has boomed like crazy in the last few years and I think it would be a very interesting show. And the best part of playing poker as a woman...is bluffing the big boys and letting them know!

merikae123

Hi Julie,
Just wanted to confirm that you received my message from last Saturday evening regarding the 15-years-old adopted Russian boy who is returning to the orphanage where he lived until 11 months old to provide a large, colorful playground where only a rusted broken swing now exists. He has raised $55,000 of the $60,000 needed to do this through fundraising and presentations he has given to rooms of "suits". Amazing since he had been diagnosed with mild cerebral palsy and learning disorders at a young age. He is one of five adopted children in his family, and the only international adoption. What an inspiration in the ways that children - all children - have inherent gifts to change the world. Please let me know that you at least have received this message. This Maryland teenager - Alex Griffith - along with other boy scouts and adults will travel to Russia this coming July (2009) to erect the playground. This will be an especially emotional time for Alex as he will also be celebrating his 16th birthday in the town where he was born.

Thanks so much for listening.

adopt13

Hi Julie! I don't envy you in trying to figure out all that technology stuff!! I know just enough to turn my computer on and get around with the just the basics! I know you all will do a fabulous job, as the Oprah show is always fabulous!

As far as a topic for the show, I'm going to have to agree with BlueBina who blogged above. Adoption is an underrated discussion of topic, yet there are so many children who need to be adopted. With infertility on the rise, so are adoptions.

I would like to see both private and agency adoptions discussed. We just experienced a hoax on a private adoption. The lady made up the entire story - there was no baby, no 15 year-old mother, nothing. We have spoken to the news about airing our story so that she does not do this to anyone else. It is a very long, 5-week story, but would love to share it with you if you are interested.

Thanks for your time and best of luck with your topics for the shows!

adopt13

dlpease

Just spent the last hour typing a though out show idea...pushed add comment and it said ERROR. AHHH! I to think this technology stuff is over rated! Really would love to share....

hawkxs3

Hi Producer, Julie!
Do a show on " Coincidences" then call me. I've already written the show for you, all you have to do it tape it. Here some topics you can pick from: Have you experienced what seemed to be a very strange coincidence and the more you think about it...it seems like MORE than a coincidence?
Or, maybe it felt like you were getting reassurance from a fairy godmother.
Or, Have you ever got a "sign" that tells you you're doing the right thing..or you're on the right track?
I've been documenting hints and clues that were left behind for my family and I by a (unknowing) dying Aunt. When I first started documenting events it was just for me. 12 years of documents tell me that it's MORE than by chance.
Example: I'm a licensed childcare provider, my center was inspired by Ms.Winfrey's movie "BELOVED". One morning 2 siblings show up, I've been caring for these children since they were infants, now 7 and 8 years old. They are always in each others way until they arrive here where we share and show kindness to others always, it's my standard. After breakfast they both reached for the same toy, at the same time. I knew it was going to be a problem. (keep in mind, there are 2 of almost everything in my center) One child looks at the other and says, go ahead, you take this one because today I'm going to change my name, meaning the name of the male toy figure. I'm now proud that child 1 shared the toy, but what child 1 did next was puzzling. Child 2 said what will you name your guy? Child 1 said, "today, I get my wings, my name is " Butler".
My phone rings and on the other end is my mother. My ma speaks calmly and says, are there any parents or children there yet? I knew something was wrong. She said your uncle "Butler" just passed. I then told her what the children had displayed while problem solving.
I've written on Eric's blog and Jill's blog with hopes that someday I'll get to share this w/others.
Example 2
Back in 2007 I lost a nephew, his mother would make a decision that would cause her only son, his life.I'll explain in detail when you call. She ran over him with the car on accident. Here I go again made at God. How could I take care of other peoples children and loose a child. HURT AND PAIN for years!!! I wanted to give up, give up everything. The only thing that kept me going was to read and reread our journey to BELOVED while thanking God for our experience. Long story short for space, I purchased a shed for the children's outdoor toys. It was to be delivered by a certain day and it didn't. I kept calling the company and finally they sent it. While signing the paperwork I noticed it was the day after my nephew's birthday. I teared up in front of the delivery person. As the man drove away I was deep in thought about the pain he must endured by the car. I opened up the shed door and sat on the floor. I sat quietly and spoke to God, I asked him if my nephew was free. After sometime I stood up and began to inspect the shed, there it was. I found the answer to my prayer. The wood used to build the shed was stamped w/my nephew's birth date. Lord Have Mercy....I could feel it on the inside.
Julie, it's all true...I would love for others to FEEL this while being inspired to slow down and enjoy and give thanks to a greater power.

dilehmk

Mar 27, 2009 11:59 AM

  |   in response to: hawkxs3

Hi hawkxs3,please send me a personal message, writing second book on coincidences for charity. The coincidences went from 1 to 3 a day in 7 months, after opening my charity to the poor , to the public. Would love to hear from you, hawkxs3.You are blessed with coincidences from GOD.

sandyb514

I am glad to finally hear someone recognize that obesity and overeating do need to be addressed and not by gastric bypass surgery. The last comment says that mental health issues are required to be addressed before gastric bypass surgery. That may very well be the case now. My daughter was 19 when she had gastric bypass surgery against our wishes. We begged the Doctor to do a psychological evaluation.
The doctor told us is was not necessary, even though we told him having elective surgery was very out of character for our daughter. He had insurance approved and had her in surgery within weeks. When we went to surgery, we were told we would have to sign for her and we said, good get dressed we are leaving. The Doctor came out and said 19 was old enough to sign for herself. As a Mom I knew she was not prepared for this surgery and something was wrong.
Now how do I describe the last 6 1/2 years since gastric bypass surgery. For my daughter over 6 years of emotional and physical pain. Complete MALABSORBTION, osteomalacia, vitamin deficiencies, constant pain from her bones deteriorating, loss of teeth and finally unable to even eat. On December 21, 2008 her suffering ended when she passed away, ours will go on forever. All because this Doctor did not feel it was important enough to evaluate and screen her properly. He let a 19 year old believe this would solve all her problems.
I am tired of hearing the same old downside to gastric bypass is weight gain. PLEASE SOMEONE DO THIS JUSTICE AND TELL ALL THE DOWNSIDE IS LOSS OF LIFE IN A DEGRADING WAY NO ONE SHOULD EXPERIENCE...... I WATCHED MY DAUGHTER DIE ON DECEMBER 21, 2008 AND WOULD LIKE IF NO MOM WOULD EVER HAVE TO EXPERIENCE THIS KIND OF LOSS AGAIN. PLEASE CONSIDER TAKING A CLOSER LOOK AT THIS MESSAGE, IT WOULD BE AN EYE OPENING SHOW. THE LONG TERM SUFFERING AND COMPLICATIONS FROM THIS SURGERY IS SOMETHING DOCTORS DO NOT KNOW HOW TO TREAT.

erinmerryn

Hey Julie,

I think the Oprah show needs to look at how we educate our students because there is one major lesson plan we are failing children on. I am currently about to send a letter out the first week of April during child abuse awareness month to the second largest elementary school board in Illinois Schaumburg school district 54 on educating children about safe touch and unsafe touch, secrets you keep and secrets you do not keep. We drill into the heads of America's young children "Stop, Drop, and Roll" in a fire. Don't talk to strangers, get away from the windows and protect your head if a tornado strikes, and bus safety. Where is the lesson plan on protecting our young from sexually predators. Do you know how many children in America go to school every day living in silence because 80-90% of the time it is happening by someone a child knows and trusts.
Let me just use myself as an example real quick to give you an idea. Just a week shy of being 7 years old I was raped by my best friend's uncle who lived with her. I never told until I was an adult.
Four years later when I was 11 a relative began sexually abusing me from age 11-13 threatening me not to tell or I would destroy our family and no one would believe me. My little sister was keeping the same secret this relative was sexually abusing her too.

An article recently came out in the March/April issue of Schaumburg Magazine of my crusade to make Illinois be the start of a national program that mandates every child be educated on safe touch and this silent epidemic is no longer silent and stigmatized. I really think the Oprah Show should look at this most important lesson plan.

kristin814

Good Day!
Two topics -
One, I am 43 and never married. I know a lot of others with and without children that are the same - why? Do we need help? I am happy yet would like someone in my life.
Two, due to the economy there are many people who now need and qualify for public assistance and unemployment that never have before. I am one of them. We need an education! Can you help? I am a single mother of 3, the youngest is 2. I am on food stamps for the first time. I am educated, love problem solving, have internet and intelligent. I am challenged. I really feel for others. I am sure I am missing things, but what.
Sincere thanks!!!!! Cheers! Kris

362211

Hi, Sent this the other day but not sure if it went through. I was wondering if there will be a 1 year reunion show with all the contestants of The Big Give. Thanks,
steph

blairbon50

In honor of my 75 year old mom, who is having way to much fun...a show on the red hatters and the differnt chapters around th4e country would be hilarous...maybe Oprah could become a Red Hatter..they wear red and purple..and are having the time of thier lives.

fearless01

Hey there! I have a really great idea for a show.. so even though this might be long PLEASE read it! I promise you you will not be disapointed!

My idea is: Taylor Swift. Yes, that's right have Taylor Swift on the show! Taylor is 19 years old and is completely taking over the country music industry. She has broken all kinds of records with her debut album, Taylor Swift, and her sophomore album, FEARLESS. Taylor is also making her way into the pop world with her extraordinary crossover success, which industry professionals say hasn't happened since Shania Twain. Taylor also has major success in England as well as other parts around the world! She is becoming a universal icon! Now on a more personal note- Taylor and I are the same age, 19, but she is my role model. She has honestly changed my life in ways that I never thought were possible. She has helped me to become more outgoing, happy and she has helped me gain more self confidence. She has also helped me learn that it doesn't matter what other people think of you, it only matters what you think of yourself. Taylor is an excellent role model and she takes the job very seriously. She doesn't believe in partying or any of the other nonsense things that other teens in the industry do. She treats her fans like friends and she is constantly doing things to help society. For her 18th birthday her record label got her a truck and she gave it away to charity. She donated $100,000 to the Iowa Flood Relief. She is always giving to St. Jude's or the Red Cross. She has even become an active participant in the fight to keep the internet safe. Taylor is just an all around great person who has changed the lives of many people. She happens to grace the cover of the next issue of Seventeen magazine and in it she says that one of her goals is to be on the Oprah show. Please help me make this dream come true for her. She has done so much for me and I know I'll never be able to thank her enough but by writing this I hope you see how extraordinary she is and will have her on the show. I can't even put into words how amazing she is. She just has this "it" factor about her. She gets excited over everything, too. She is just so different from all the other celebrities her age and her music is AMAZING. Also, she writes all of her own songs and she got a publishing deal at the age of 15 because her writing skills are just tremendous. Her family moved all the way from Wyomissing, PA to Hendersonville, TN so that she could fulfull her dream of working in country music. Please have her on your show. Even if it's just on Friday's Live From Chicago or something. It will make one of her dreams come true. She is going on her first headlining tour which starts at the end of April so maybe you could throw her a little going away party or something... I think that would be absolutely wonderful and there's no doubt that millions of people would tune in to watch.

Thanks for reading this!

hawkxs3

Mar 29, 2009 11:35 AM

  |   in response to: dilehmk

It's funny, I never look for "it", it just shows up. I make a note of "it" and keep going, but often "it" leads me to unfamiliar places.I'm finding that there is much work to be done.

stamakisj

Hi Julie, As an avid blogger I can tell you that the more often you post the easier it becomes. It also becomes more fun when people leave comments, which you have plenty of. It took me almost a year before someone left me a comment so you're way ahead of the game. I'd like to suggest a show topic about the critical need for ethnic diversity in the National Marrow Donor Program registry. The reason this is important is because for anyone who ever needs a marrow transplant their best chance of finding a match is within their own ethnic group. This is good for Caucasians who comprise 73% of the current registry but not so good for African Americans (7.6%), Asian Americans (7.2%), Hispanics (5.2%), American Indian and Native Alaskans (1.1%), National Hawaiian and Pacific Islanders ( 0.1%), and people of mixed ethnicities. My cousin Tami, a 44 year old working mom with 2 young kids, was recently diagnosed with Myelodysplasia and urgently needs a stem cell transplant. Being Japanese American her odds were shocking to me the more I learned about the process. Of the 7.4 million people in the registry only 32,639 are of Japanese descent. Obviously not good odds for her or anyone of any ethnic minority group. ***So key points to cover in a possible show would be: (1) Why minorities need to get registered. (2) That 70% of donors now donate by a process called Peripheral Blood Stem Cell (PBSC) donation where they receive a medication that makes their marrow over produce stem cells that are then released into their blood stream. The donation process is more like donating blood except for that you receive back the blood that is taken out once the stem cells have been harvested. (3) Testing entails swabbing your mouth with 4 cotton swabs. That's it. No blood is drawn to be added to the registry. (4) Testing is available at "Live Donor Drives" and mail-in home kits are available online and by phone to anyone, anywhere in the U.S. (5) Through programs like the Asian American Donor Program any person of any minority group or of mixed ehtnicities can be tested for free under a federal grant. For Caucasians other free to be tested opportunities exist when drives are located on university campuses and when sponsors step forward to cover the costs for all at select drives. Through the AADP testing in person or by mail-in kit is discounted for Caucasians through a grant reducing the $52 testing cost to $25. (6)My hope is that everyone who is able and willing will join the registry now, because the reality is from start to finish: Using the swab kit, waiting for your sample to be tested and added to the registry, the patient's search of the national and international databases, preliminary matches going on to formal confirmative testing and finally an end result? Can take upwards of 4 to 5 months or more from start to finish. For someone with cancer that extra 1- 2 months or more of waiting for samples to be tested can mean life or death. The patient needs to be healthy enough to survive the transplant process and a month or two can make all the difference.*** I hope this topic is of interest to you. If you'd like more information I can send you the link to the website I built for my cousin and to help the other 6000 people currently seeking a marrow match. It includes how to donate, other ways to help and links to donor organizations nationally and internationally.

cdessingue

Hi, I think a good show would be about the American Red Cross volunteers who give up two weeks of their time to jump at the chance to go where it is freezing and flooding. What drives these people? They go at a moments notice to hurricanes, floods, tornadoes..you name it they go. They leave the safety of their families and ride the tail of the hurricane season. Setting up shelters, kitchens, locating lost family members and helping people rebuild their lives from scratch.

Thank you, Cecilia

dilehmk

Mar 30, 2009 1:41 PM

  |   in response to: hawkxs3

Hi hawkxs3, coincidences are GODS blessing's!!!!

jdinaa

Julie,
I am not a big watcher of the show but I know and have seen the power of Oprah. I was an Americorp volunteer teacher in the late 90's when Oprah came to town and helped several women shelters. Now many years later I have came in to need of services myself and found a place just starting out and needs help. US VETS Houston is a place where homeless veterans can go and get help making the transition back into society. I am one of those vets.
This place has helped me so much that I want to work for them, I do not care what I get paid. They have many struggles, most financial. With more Vietnam Veterans homeless today than died in the war, our economy and lord help me all these young veterans coming back from Iraq and Afganistan already showing up in homeless shelters. So this is a plea for help, any advise you can give. Please don't let these younsters be forgotten like our veterans of our near past. We have to get ready now.

emdeengee

Hi Julie

I am also technologically challenged but fortunately have a smarty pants husband who is not. I hope you have some good Techies in your life. I have three ideas for shows which I would like to suggest. All three have to do with Seniors.

When I was growing up the dirty little secret that everyone knew about but no one talked about was child neglect and abuse. That has changed and things have become better because some very brave people stood up and talked about it and forced the world to face it.

Today the dirty little secret that everyone knows about but no one talks about is elder neglect and abuse. Physical, psychological, financial and medical abuse of the old is rampant all over the world. The old are as vulnerable as any child and yet they are always at the bottom of the list when it comes to aid. Just remember how their needs were ignored during the Tsunami and Katrina.

The largest generation ever born ¿ the Baby Boomers ¿ is about to hit our senior years. There is still time to bring this issue to the public¿s attention and change the probable future for so many.

I love the shows about the most talented kids but would love to see one about older people who have incredible talents that have never been recognized. And I don¿t just mean singers, musicians and dancers but writers, artists, quilters and even gardeners. People who have lived life and have a lot to say and contribute.

Every year there are thousands of seniors who spend Christmas alone, away from their families. For some it has been decades since they have been together. There are many reasons but often it is just money. Either they cannot afford to travel or their families cannot afford it. This year, with the recession I think that it will be even worse than ever. I would love to see a Christmas reunion show for seniors. Maybe even get John Travolta to fly them home for the holidays.

appal777

Good job, Julie! How about a show that showcases people who were ALREADY the working poor when this economic crisis hit? So stockbrokers are flipping burgers...what about those people in the service and trade industries who were affected when employers cut jobs? My employer cut 35 jobs. I was not laid off, but worse; I was taken off my long-time desk job, & a person from another department making almost twice my pay was put in my job. I had to help train him, and only then was I given my new job in janitorial. I am a homeless survivor of family abuse with a history of depression. I am strong and I will make it. I hope so, anyway. But what I wouldn't give to have even the memory of a $750,000 house to keep me warm at night, and not the bitter reality of a homeless shelter. I mean, if the very rich are fighting the poor for menial jobs, where will the very poorest and most vulnerable who traditionally worked those menial jobs end up???????? I don't have a Roth IRA, or a Mercedes to sell as a security net. All I have are my own two hands, but what happens to me if my company wants to give job security to yet another coworker making more money, by giving them even my lowly janitorial job??
Please please listen, and I thank you, with gratitude. Sincerely, "Scared".

pyk8300

Apr 2, 2009 8:41 PM

  |   in response to: sandyb514

great show idea, yes more people should be aware of the complications.

pyk8300

Apr 2, 2009 8:42 PM

  |   in response to: sandyb514

great show idea

pyk8300

Hello julie!
I have a show suggestion for you, 4 specialist 4 participants.
1 st specialist gain 10-20 pounds lose it in 1week and do the same thing for the participants.

donnak918

Hi Julie, It's trying to be spring so how about a backyard makeover show. I also, did all my homework handwritten or on a clunky typewriter (with whiteout) and am just getting used to FB (thanks to my kids). I am also one of the statistics that just found myself out of work. Never thought it could happen. Thank goodness we did planning, have some savings and my husband has worked as a civil employee with the government since 1989 so he's pretty safe. Our problem? He's been working 6 days a week for over a year and is the one who loves to do the outside work. He just has enough time to cut our 1 acre lot. We love to be outside on our deck (needs sanding and some style) when weather permits, but neither of us has a green thumb or any hint of "Martha" in us for planning outside spaces. We have a high school graduation coming up for our youngest (party is in June), our oldest daughters wedding (August) and I'll have quite a few relatives over from Ireland during the summer staying with us. Utilizing our outside space would be wonderful, but we need major help. Get one of those landscape and planning gurus on to help us out. He can use my yard! Thanks for reading my ramblings.

nicoloboys

ideas? I can give you plenty.

Nate and the group do a wonderful job of transforming homes, how about a school room. A library in particular. Get the faculty all involved..You know kind of like While you were out.. A school, an office...

How to decide on where your aging parents should live. Nursing home, assistive living, Retirement home.

Community Centers who are reaching out.

Remember The movie Coldminers Daughter? The part where Loretta and her husband traveled around getting radio stations to play her songs. Well, have a contest where someone who is a singer or songwriter has written a song. Let the Oprah show record the winning song and have someone travel with this singer for a month and let them do what ever they can to get airtime for their song. Give them a budget. Let them be creative. Sell the dc out of the trunk of their car if they have too. Sing for their supper. It could be like a reality show to follow online. Let the viewers deside on the best song.

Oh, heck, I can go on and on.

joyann3

Julie....United Airlines wants to charge obese people more money...this is wrong....I wanted to do a show about this on my tv talk show that I am trying to get off the ground in Barbados. But I know Oprah can reach more people than I can and the world needs to here more on this...Your title...."Should Obese People Pay more for public transport? That includes, planes, trains, buses and taxis....Please do this. I dont fall under the Obese catagory but I feel strongly about making a person pay more due to appearences...because thats what it boils down to be.And what is the criteria? If they are over 300 lbs....what if they book on line....do you charge them when you see them at the airport and ask them to step on a scale after weighing the bags?. What about a tall person who does not need two seats...but is the same weight as the 300lb woman because he is 6ft 7' and his height carryies the weight.Is this not discrimination? It reminds me of black people having to ride to the back of the bus because of color. The airline claims that they need to make money but they stan to lose as obese people have husbands,wives children and other family members that would ultimatly refuse to travel on that airline due to their rules on Obesity. If you want you can always contact me regarding details on the issue...I look forward to your response.

cadams79

Dear Producer Julie,
I love your name The Dreamteam, it is appropriate for my idea of a show highlighting Susan Boyle and others with powerfully emotional dreams and how living those dreams can bring hope and change to the world.

Daring to Dream:

A new mother holds a miracle in her arms; she is only as big as a whisper. The doctors prognosis is grim mitochondrial encephalomyopathy which is degenerative. She watches, helpless as her daughter is slowly slipping from her. Brigid is only three years old and may not live to see her fourth birthday this fall.

We are doing our part to give Brigid her whispered dreams, to give hope to a family in great need. Our Company, Dare to Be, was founded by two stay at home moms daring to dream. We want to instill hope in a world of turmoil. Our passion is helping others live the lives of their dreams. We inspire children, youth and women to discover who they are, dream big, live in the moment and be the change.

Our most recent event was a Dare to Dream Contest: Each person was asked to share their dream and how they are making a difference. We chose three individuals to assist in seeing that they have the tools and the belief in themselves to make their dreams come true. We believe hope is a very powerful catalyst to change: "If you lose hope, somehow you lose the vitality that keeps life moving, you lose that courage to be, that quality that helps you go on in spite of it all. And so today I still have a dream."
Martin Luther King Jr.

Find out on today's Oprah how daring to dream brings hope and joy into your life and has the ability to change the world.

This show could include the following:

Invite Susan Boyle on the show to sing "I Dreamed a Dream," and discuss how she is living her dream and giving hope to all to live their dreams. She is making a difference by being who she is and daring to dream.
1. Introduce each of our Dare to Dream contest winners and share their amazing stories with the world. They are each making a difference in their own unique ways.
2. Making Dreams Come True: There are two dreams we wanted to make happen but didn't have the means to. We feel that Oprah could assist these individuals and provide them with the means to take charge and live their dreams, or Oprah could do a search for others who have a dream.
3. Dare to Be the Change: Oprah stated on the pre-inaugural show with Demi Moore and Ashton Kucher, how most people want to make a difference but are just unsure of how to get started. We will show how every viewer can take their passion and turn it into action. There are many who dream of making a difference, but need encouragement and direction.
4. Highlight organizations we support and who have touched the lives of millions who are in great need around the world, all because they dared to dream: Free the Children, Kiva and The Girl Effect. Oprah could invite Craig Kielburger, Founder of Free the Children and Matt Flannery, Co-founder and CEO of Kiva to make an appearance or share an update on their organization through Skype.

Thank you for your time, I hope I can support you in bringing newsworthy, inspiring reports to your audience.
Warmest Regards,

Chantelle Adams
Co-Founder, Dare to Be
chantelle@daretobe.ca

bhechtman

The Susan Boyle story touched everybody I know. There is something about never giving up on a dream and having it pay off. It is also my story. All I ever wanted to be was a writer. By my late fifties, I began to think the newspaper and magazine pieces, along with a few short stories I had gotten published were going to be it for me. I know people around me thought I ought to face facts and hang my pen up. But in 2006, I went from zero book deals to contracts for seven. The first was a young adult mystery with a small publisher that came out that September to great reviews. In November both St. Martins and Berkley wanted my crochet themed cozy mystery series and actually bid against each other. Berkley won and offered me a six book deal. Hooked on Murder came out in May 08 and was in the top ten on the Barnes & Noble Mass Market Mystery list for six weeks. Dead Men Don't Crochet came out in December 08 and was also on the same list. By Hook or By Crook comes out in June.

And now the people who thought I ought to give up are telling my story as an inspiration to others.
Betty Hechtman BettyHechtman.com

lukn2bug

Hello Julie!!! I think a FABULOUS show idea would be for October as I believe it is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. With this...you could incorporate all forms of cancer survivors and possibly make some survivors "DREAMS COME TRUE". My mother in law currently lives in Texas and is a survivor. She is also truly the ULTIMATE OPRAH FAN and has been for many years. I honestly don't think she's missed a single show in at least 10 years! I can tell you her dream come true would be as simple as attending as an audience member of the Oprah Show. She recently received a clean bill of health after battling ovarian cancer that nearly cost her her life. It was a very long uphill battle for both her and my father in law who was by her side the whole way. My husband is 1 of 6 kids and each of the kids took their turn to fly in for what they anticipated would possibly be their last visit. Miraculously...today she is healthy and doing well. Still building up her strength, as it was not too long ago (I think about a year now). But each and every day is a blessing as she continues to do better. I cannot even imagine the thrill of being able to surprise her with a visit to the Oprah Show. Sincerely, Lisa Schwartz-dnlschwartz@earthlink.net

latlari

I am a big fan and I would love to see the Dream team do a show featuring Oprah's biggest fans...The ones like myself who have tried for several years to get tickets to be part of the audience for my mom sisters and I but have yet to succeed. Ordinary Fans actually making it to be part of the audience. So many people tell me it is impossible and to stop trying but I am still hoping that one day it will come true. The show should get all the people who have emailed numerous of times but didn't get anywhere....that is a real dream come true. I am slowly losing hope but continue to be a big fan that watches the show religously.

Lori

latlari

Oh...in regards to my last comment. That is Biggest Canadian Fans. I am from Westeren Canada. I have even tried the last minute reservation in hopes I can find a flight right away if I was lucky enought to get tickets. Us Canadians love you and our dreams want to come true too...please let us be part of your Audience.

renaud0966

I think you did just great with your first Blog! Way to go - I myself recently set up a My Space page to stay in touch with my daughter's friends and I was thinking to myself... Your really CAN teach an old dog new tricks!

As for the show ideas...
My daughter Mandy was a phenomenal young lady, 17, beautiful,

4girlsmama

Julie,
I know that you have now been flooded with amazing ideas from viewers on so many different topics. I am a huge fan and have grown up watching and learning so many valuable lessons from your show. I love when I am able to watch and learn something that I had NO clue about. During this time of year as our kids are finishing up school we are thinking a lot about the teachers that influenced our children and helped them to grow throughout the year. There is a small group of teachers across the nation that the average person has no clue about. My mom Terri Bolles is one of them... She is a teacher at Riley Hospital for Children. While children are in the hospital whether it is for a few days or months it is the responsibility of these teachers to make sure that they don't fall behind in school. Some might think that the last thing a sick child should have to think about is school, but it gives them a since of future and daily accomplishment and normalcy that they might not have otherwise. These teachers teach k-12 every day. Their classroom is often in the form of a bedside of a hospital room or make shift in a waiting room. They often extend their services to siblings and young mothers who have children in the hospital. Their job reaches so much further beyond that of what we think of when we picture that of a teacher. Each year my mom has to work tirelessly to get funding to continue this amazing program. I believe if others saw her story and the countless stories of those whom she has touched that there would be more importance placed by the hospitals on these very important programs. I could write a novel on your page about this subject it¿s so amazing¿ I hope that you are able to take a look at it.
Thank you so much for your time,
Cortney Lynch

820denise

Jun 11, 2009 3:43 PM

  |   in response to: sdw510

Girl I have the same problem, as a african american women our hair cannot handle the sweat that a strenouous workout causes. My choices are not good I can have a big unhealthy body with good looking hair, or healthy body with bad looking hair. There has got to me another way. Any suggestions???

franpro

Hi Julie - How about a show about "older folks" - the over 65 group who have lived frugally all their lives and are now enjoying the fruits of their labors. Many seniors are happy, healthy and very active; not everyone is in a nursing home or assisted living. Why not showcase those who "earned their retirement" -- show how they got there and what they're doing now. There are many active senior comunities in the Chicago area and around the country. That topic should be of interest to everyone watching since they too will be senior citizen some day soon.

qz5dqs

Hi Julie,

Would you please consider doing a uplifting show on the people of Flint Michigan. Consider assisting homeowners with home projects, single parents, senior citizens, etc. Almost everyone has exited Flint and this town has been hit hard by the economic turn, as well as other states. I recently lost my 19 yr white collar job with the Automobile industry yet I don't allow that to define me or my family. I would like to thank every tax paying citizen for the bail out funding, inspite of my job loss. Julie will you take a positive risk yet an unpopular one to do a story showing a people that are strong, commited, family oriented, hard-working, and still alive in Flint. Rush Limbaugh has stated that Flint MI should be bulldozed and that Flint is proof that a government can't revive anything. I believe that the hand of God will restore Flint, and that God will use His people to accomplish this - not bail out plans or stimulus packages. Will you and the Oprah Show come to Flint and ignite your encouragement, strength and the weight of your successful reputation to a city that will turn around with help? Help paint a new picture and re-write a uplifting message in and for Flint. We are more than what is depicted of us in the news. I look forward to your consideration with expectation.

Thank you,
Flint, MI

qz5dqs

dupeka77

Jul 8, 2009 5:06 PM

  |   in response to: clm6875

hello i do not want to say my name but why oprah brings the wealthy pepole to the show, don't they have enough pablicity?

celticlou

Hi Julie.
I think a great idea for the show is to use only your international viewers. Looking at the date of your post March 17th, our national holiday. It is very appropiate.
Oprah is viewed worldwide. I am a huge fan for many years and would love to be involved in a show. As would all her International fans. What do you think.
The audience is so diverse ans exciting.
Love the show
Louie Casserly Ireland

cindyfcst7

Dear Oprah,

It has been a 17 year long struggle to maintain a relationship with my daughter because of the motives of malevolent people in her life that have utilized her precious childhood to be on their campaign against me, her mother. This happens to thousands of children and adults all over the world, yet it is not considered child abuse.
When I watch the news I correlate what is said to people experiencing this type of emotional abuse termed ¿parental alienation.¿ Recently, a person commenting on the ¿Balloon Boy¿ incident was talking about the need to get children services involved because the parents were involving children in ¿deceptive, almost evil¿ behavior. And a lawyer cautioned police against arresting the parents in front of the children because he said that would be ¿child abuse.¿ Please note that parental alienation is deceptive and evil behavior aimed at tearing relationships apart and it IS child abuse.
Unless you have been through this trauma, it is difficult to comprehend. I have described it as a slow death of a child. The parent and his or her family are relentless to remove good memories and the physical presence of the ¿target¿ parent from the child. They do whatever it takes until the job is done.
In my personal case, my daughter was affected earlier but it was extremely noticeable at the age when her father, stepmother and people I never met told her that she could choose to live with them at 12 years of age. When I heard that, I then understood her behaviors but I was still shocked that people would do this to a child. Previous to finding that out, my daughter had begun pulling away from me physically and mentally. If I touched her, she would wipe the spot. There were no more hugs or return ¿I love you¿s.¿
All along the stepmother, father, and other family members on her father¿s side were manipulating my time with her physically and mentally. My daughter has heard her father threaten to arrest me, has been privy to child support payments and told how I should spend them, and was even brought to the child support office in Erie, PA. The stepmother would cross my name and number off my daughter¿s school folders, tell others that she was my daughter¿s mom, and would tell my daughter I did not care for her properly. One evening my daughter called from their house telling a lie about the school principle then when I found out the truth, they coached her to write a letter. My daughter has spied on me, searched for financial information, and has taken things from my house to theirs because she felt they were entitled to it. When she was 14 she bumped into me then called the police. On September 19th my daughter witnessed her stepmother stopping in front of me, then backing her body up, screaming that I hit her. I looked at the woman in disbelief, but saw something that saddened me. It was reality that a person like this has been influencing my daughter for 17 years, and this is how my daughter has acted. Ten days later my daughter wrote a letter against me for mediation for custody. Children will be abnormally loyal to only one parent for it is too stressful to be in the middle. (Know that even though it looks like a tug of war, often one side tugs while the other just tries to hold on).
All of this and so much more that I have not mentioned and do not know about has been abusive to my daughter. Whenever I talk about this in a crowd, I always hear of other cases and it breaks my heart. I have a teaching degree and see kids in schools that are also suffering but do not know how to identify what is happening to them.
The abuse to children does not dissipate with time. It leaves scars often deeper than physical ones. This intentional and premeditated abuse ruins relationships for the child in the present and in the future, for they have spent time and been influenced by people they are to trust but who have taught them to hate. It is a sickness that these people have and they deny doing any wrong. The courts say they work ¿In the best interest of the child,¿ but they often contribute to the abuse.
Mediators and judges all over the world take part in the abuse by failing and refusing to understand parental alienation and I hold them partly responsible. I have sent educational literature and presentations to the custody personnel Erie County over the years never having intended to seek out their services after my first experience. Three people out of hundreds replied. It seems the power trips take over and the lack of compassion is hardened by numerous cases. But each child is someone¿s son or daughter that is being harmed.
Please have an hour long show on this emotional abuse to children and get guests on the show that have been through this as well as counselors that have experienced this pain. We need to further expose this abuse and find some solutions as well as address what happens in the court houses, qualifications and training as well as experience of the custody personnel.
My personal file is full of letters and proof of alienation but the times he has taken me in, I was never able to speak. The courts usually take the word of the alienated child and their perpetrators, for they are game players and target parents are not! These are our children¿s¿ lives for God¿s sake!
Believe me, I would have loved for this to be different for my daughter by working together in truly the best interest of my daughter but¿¿¿. Help me help children have healthy childhoods!

angelss4

HI! I have a show idea!! I was looking where to post it @..ok, so here it is: I am a single mother of two, majoring in Environmental Studies. It has always been my dreal to start organic gardens at schools. I have searched for grants, funding to get this started, but there are so many regulations, loopholes, tax info, that makes it impossible to get awarded. So, I had the thought to contact Oprah! Who better to motivate peopls to get together all over the world to do something that is good for people, then environment, kids, than oprah! SO, I am suggesting to do a show to get people together to start organic gardens at schools. There are so many children that go hungry, and, the lunches that are served at schools, are not that nutritious. It would make sense to have gardens, where chidlren can learn to grow their own food, and they would love it! Also, the food doesnt have to be shipped from far away, which is a good thing for the enviro. I hope that you will take this into consideration! Thnks. Sarah Coffey, Helena, MT
sarahcoffey4444@yahoo.com

lippencil

Hi! I have a show idea. In watching the show on how people around the world live and are happy, I noticed Oprah's feet as she had her shoes off in one of the segments and noticed our feet are very similar. I'd love for her to do a show on comfortable, stylish shoes for people who struggle with bunions, hammer toes, etc. I know it's a huge problem for many people. I loved high heels, but unfortunately due to foot surgery, I can't find any that are comfortable. HELP!!!!! Thanks. Susan Krieg, Pittsboro, IN kriegds@juno.com

carolmaja

Hello Julie,
I feel like I owe it to my sister to speak for her and share her story and others like her. There is so much ignorance with regard to Mental Illness that I think people need to be more informed. A day (or week, month or year) in the life of the mentally ill is something that everyone should experience. It will change your life!
My sister was diagnosed with a mental illness at the age of 19 she passed away in 2007 at the age of 47 years old. The time between the age of 19-47 was filled with struggles, joy, pain, hurt, love, compassion, prayer, stress, forgiveness , great times and not so great times. At times much more than a family can handle!!
Please consider an episode dedicated to a day, week, or a month of a mentally ill persons life! They need there stories to be told!! They are Brave!!
Thank you
Carol