I read many comments and emails from people who told me what they would like in a man or woman. This was not the point of my blog. It was to open the eyes of people who look for skin beautiful, age, weight, and height. I feel many of us are missing out on someone who could make their world by going for someone who has good signs of a true heart. I want tell you a story about myself, when I was twenty years old I met two men one was so cute, two years younger then me, thin, and was just one inch shorter then myself. The other was okay in looks yet you would not see people stop to look at him like the other man I told you about, he was ten years older then me, thin, and was four inches shorter then me. He use to wear high heel boots to make himself look taller and was made fun of for doing so, so I use to have him take me to restaurants that I knew no one would see us together. Both men ask for my hand in marriage and of course I pick the cute one and he gave me two very cute children whom will not have problem finding a date since many of you are still blind. When the cute one and I use to go out everyone told me how great he look on my arm, yet he was abusive he hit me, called me names, made me have sex with him when he was too drunk to get it up, and made sure I knew he never love me. We are now divorce and it has been four years now. The man I did not pick I hear he end up getting married to someone else who was not blind to his heart. I hear she is treat like a queen and to think this could of been me, yet I was blind, and I JUST DID NOT GET IT.